girlfriend problem

[Brett]

so i love my girlfriend.. and she says she loves me.. though her boyfriend from last year came home from college and like goes to her house a lot.. i say i dont like but i have never really gotten mad about it.. she says she chose him over me this time, because he still wants her...
she says they are just friends... but obviously im ganna be uneasy about this..WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO HER??? should i be mad???
she still says "i love you" to him when they hang up the phone and it gets me pissed. PLEASE HELP!!!

[LIsailer19]

i dont think there is any need to get mad with her. you probably should talk to her, but becareful how you start the conversation, as she may get annoyed. good luck.

[ScotsGirl]

she says she chose him over me this time, because he still wants her...

I dont understand what youre saying :?
She chose him? but i thought you guys were together? and...umm..Im confused! :P


she still says "i love you" to him when they hang up the phone and it gets me pissed. PLEASE HELP!!!

Have you asked her about that?
I know there are many different ways in which you can love someone, especially as a friend, but its important that her ex realises what she means when she tells him that. There is a good chance that he may be wrongly presuming that when she tells him she loves him, that it is more than jsut as a friend...
I think you need to talk to her some more.
Dont get mad about it, just calmly explain to her how youre feeling.

Can I ask...do you trust her?
You dont have to answer if you dont want to, of course. :)

I hope things work out alright! :)

xxx

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

yea, im a lil confused with some things u said there....but if they were together a while ago maybe they still are friends. they can still see each other and be together as friends and that doesnt mean that they are dating eachother

[Confused Posh Boy]

Tough one mate, it seems to me like things where never really over when he left and she in her own mind hasnt considerd that her relationship with this other guy is more then just friendship but i do think that you should carefuly say to her that she might be giving him the wrong idea

all the best

[BrunetteBaby1131]

I have one word for you: Trust.
Relationships are built on it.
You HAVE to trust her.
If ya don't, the relationship is doomed
and if she does anything, it's doomed anyways.
So, the best thing to do is trust her and hope to god she doesn't do anything with him.
If she does do something, then u kno she was never gonna be completely loyal, and u can do better.