is it right?

[Gumleaf]

ok, so tomoz is our school formal right. anyways, afterwards i know of at least 1 after party thats happening. the guy who is organising it doesn't know me or my gf very well. anyways, i found out last night he has invited my gf but not me to the party. when my gf found out, she said she wouldn't go without me, but i could tell she wanted to go because like most people, she enjoys parties and stuff. i just instictively told her she should go anyways and she said ok as long as i wasn't upset about it. i told her it was ok because she deserves to have fun and i would be fine. now i'm unhappy because now i'm going to be left at home afterwards, while they are all having fun, i have no idea why i have been left out anyways and i'm just feeling crap about it. but i did the right thing encouraging my gf to go didn't i? she deserves to have a good time. i know there is no real question here, just wanted to talk about it.

[xEZx]

So you should find out if there's any parties that are being held by anyone who you know and go there if you want to make sure that nothing happens to your girl or just saying if you don't fully trust her find some way to go with her. If you trust your girl you should just let her go and see if there's any parties you can go to or if any of your friends have no plans and hang with them.

[IAMWILL]

Hmmm..... I think you did the right thing in letting your girlfriend go out and have fun, because you'll always need to make sacrifices in relationships, yet being apart from her is not exactly the best way to spend time after your formal. Maybe talk to the guy hosting the party and ask if you can go, even if he doesn't know you.. a considerate person would understand and probably let you go. I'm not trying to question the strength of your relationship, I know its good since you trust her going to parties and such when you're not around, but anything can happen, and its probably better for you two to be together on a night like this. If you can't get in though, maybe call her to check in during the party. She should pick up and talk to you. If everything sounds alright, relax, if not, you learned from a mistake. I think you made a good choice, because it shows you really trust her, and now its just riding on her shoulders to keep the promise she made (that she wouldn't do anything with someone else) while your not around. Just make sure that she lets you go to a party next time your invited and she's not, although that probably doesn't happen as much with girls as it does with guys.

[JasonClark]

you should get a friend of hers that is going to look after her. I know if my girl was going to a party without me i could trust her, but that is just because she doesnt drink much, and as far as guys go she sure as hell wouldnt flirt with anyone.
But, if this WASNT the case, yeah id get a friend of hers to watch over her. like a fuckin hawk if u get my drift.