Why can't i get a girl? (girls only) PLEASE POST!!!

[xEZx]

Truthfully I'm not very attractive at all but I'm smart caring and actually care about other peoples problems but cant seem to get a girl i know there's a few girls kind of into me but i think they'd be embarrassed to go out with me i think its just because my looks and most of the girls are all self centered and only go for looks and literally end up getting dumped and used within 24-48 hours I'm also friends with lots of the coll people so people always say I'm a loser trying to act cool but I'm friends with them because we have a lot in common not because i want to act cool because i know I'm not cool. I don't know why anyone won't go out with me. :confused::confused::confused::confused:

[mrcoffeshop]

dude i know how you feel! umm PM me id love to help because i know exactly how you feel!

but dude let me just say this ur a caring guy so dont lose that quality! its the best! dont even think about losing it! acting cool is also the the least of your worries dont change to be some stay your self. 2 little pieces of advice, umm and well to get into depth about my experiences i could deff help you out, PM me

[thatnathanguy]

If they don't like you for who you are and can't get past you not being extremely popular, or the fact that you aren't a supermodel, then thay are shallow and it's not worth wasting your time with them.

Just wait; someday you'll meet people who truly love you for the person you are. This people are worth it :) Hang in there.

[xEZx]

There are some girls that aren't shallow but the only one i like is like one of my best friends and i don't want to risk it because for some reason most of her relationships don't work out.

[zack0507]

become relli popular and the girls will fall at your feet

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[Darkness]

A P101 thread, don't you love self pity. ;)

Look you need to stop try to act "Cool". Acting cool is cool, guys get cool. But coolness is being a jerk. So stop being cool and be- if not you're self... a person, not a bastard.

[Patchy]

Just a point, why have 5 guys replied when the OP asked for girls only?

[Giles]

Just a point, why have 5 guys replied when the OP asked for girls only?
I believe guys can give better advice on this particular query.

I know it's obvious. But just be yourself. Hang around with who you want to, not just the cool people.

[kaz009]

awwh. you'll see in time girls will dieing for you. im one of them girls that think that personality counts and if its good looks too its a big bonus. there are many out there, and there should be quite a lot of girls that could acually like you but they are just embarrased, i was always embarrased if i liked someone. you will find someone promise!! (:

[Sage]

But coolness is being a jerk. So stop being cool and be- if not you're self... a person, not a bastard.

I'm not cool at all and I'm absolutely a jerk to a lot of people, and there are a bunch of chicks who would love to go out with me. Being a jerk is awesome, girls love the 'bad boy', just be nice to your lady and s'all good.

[xEZx]

I'm not saying i act cool its that some of my friends are popular and some girls say they don't want to go out with me because I'm not cool but i just follow the popular kids when i don't want to be "cool" and don't just hang out with them because i want to be cool i hang out with them because we are friends and have a lot in common.

[xEZx]

To be clear I don't want to be popular or cool at all.

[shela]

just be you. even if you dont look the best you sound like a really nice guy. i had almost the same problem. but i stayed true 2 myself and wouldnt let anyone change. like 2 weeks after i started being me alot of guys ask me out. they all thought i had a big ego because im a star athlete and honor student. now i have a really great boyfriend and alot of new friends. I.M me id love to help you out.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Depending on your age, things will change. Don't lose courage and don't give up. One day a girl will come and you will be their perfect guy.

Notice, that you are still growing, and though looks isn't everything when it comes to a relationship. Looks are important! sorry but it is the truth, attraction comes emotionally and physically.

Would you like to go out with someone you don't find attractive?

But don't be discouraged, that no matter how unttractive you are, things will change. I say that, because I went through it. I was so utterly ugly, and things did improve.

Of course, everything is a personal battle, if you don't take care of yourself, you have no excuse to complain.

[allsoulsareblack]

a word of advise chances are u have all ready met someone u will fall in love with but may have no fellings at all yet

[diamond jetstream]

you need to know that if these people dont want to go out with you know then they dont deserve to have you when they choose to have you its not when it sees fit relationships that end up all happy and stuff. yu just need to wait for the perfect person who loves you to come along and when that happens you wont care about what any of the others thought.on a final note you sound like a really sweet guy and the girls that wont go out with you are probably just stuck up tramps who arent worth the air you breath.good luck finding your match.