HELP!!! i need advice, very confused on what to do

[Krazymitch]

ok so heres the story

im bi/gay watever...and there is this guy at school, he is really sporty and likes to show off infront of me. i asked my best friend, who happenes to be a gurl if he shows off when im nto around and she said no he doesnt, he doesnt even flirt. this is giving me mixed messages, idk if this is a sign he likes me or he is trying to impress me because whenever im with him we always get onto topics like who we fancy and who we think is gay, sometimes he sits on my lap for no apparent reason and tht give me a raging hard on. but anyways, he has been to my house a couple of times (his and my sister are friends) and he has worn the tightest shirt and the shortest shorts he has. he never seems to go anywhere else in the house EXCEPT for my room. he lied on my bed and said it was comfy, then he had to go, but b4 he did, as he was leaveing i was against the wall near my door and he was draging his hands along the wall, his hands went over my package and sort of slowd down and grabbed at the same time...
give me some advice on this please!!! what should i do!

[nick]

Well do you like him and want to play around a bit or not? It seems like he's giving you clear enough signals that he's up for it. So if you're not interested you should tell him, and if you are interested - well use your imagination.

[Matty.]

Well do you like him and want to play around a bit or not? It seems like he's giving you clear enough signals that he's up for it. So if you're not interested you should tell him, and if you are interested - well use your imagination.

yeah i agree!!! but make sure he is actually gay or bi.

and if you dont want him send him to me :)

[thepieman]

Well, it seems like he is giving some signal, but he could be messing around. As above really, make sure he is gay/bi first before you try anything or it could go really wrong for you. Good luck! :)

[JackSecret1]

sounds to me like he's practically BEGGING for you to make a move! haha
keep your head though, make sure your absolutely certain. Then make your move, maybe when he's on your bed again try going in for a kiss?

anyway, good luck dude!
let us know how it goes :) x

[Billy15]

i dont want to seem weird but if that happened to me (especially the wall thing) yeah id know something was up lol. it seems obvious to me that he likes you and is hinting like crazy sitting on your lap, touching you and talking about who is gay. besides he is also showing off when your in the room so yeah it sounds to me like he likes you and is trying to get a reaction from you lol

[Krazymitch]

thanx guys... altho he always states tht he is strait. and he is the kind of persom who also has no problem hitting some1 who is gettin to close or annyoing him :S...he hits me alot cause i get annoying and always pay him out better then he pays me out., i hit bak but yeah.

[Krazymitch]

WELL HE DECKED ME SQUARE IN BETWEEN THE EYES. i think that a no.

[Alex17]

I think that if you like him then u should go for it. The signals are clear enough I think

[Krazymitch]

HE DECKD ME, DECKING SOME ONE MEANS FULL ON PUNCHING SOMEONE IN THE FACE. i think that was a no.

[BlackBetty]

HE DECKD ME, DECKING SOME ONE MEANS FULL ON PUNCHING SOMEONE IN THE FACE. i think that was a no.

So your saying that he hit you because you made a move?? Explain!!

[Krazymitch]

well he came over my house, he touched my package, i touched his, he didnt care so i kept going, he kissd me, i kissed back, he asked if i had the hots for him, i said hell yeah. 2 seconds later im lying on the floor holding my blood filled nose, while he is putting his pants back on and walking out of my room.

[KenFisher]

What a jerk.
He's just toying with you then. Just punched you in the face when you told him you liked him is not what a nice guy would do. He didn't even APOLOGISE! AND JUST WALKED OUT!
I know you might not want to, but just ask him why did he do that for. If he's being a prick or won't answer, just ignore him. He's a prat.
He might say sorry, but he's gotta be real sincere. Not simply 'I'm so sorry.'
What a jerk.