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thenewguy728
November 30th, 2009, 11:46 PM
Okay, so long story short, me and my girlfriend felt each other up, don't need details. Basically through the process we think their might have been a chance of some swapping of any fluids. I don't think there really was, I never came just pre-cum, and yeah... it's not like had sex (yes I know that sounds naive)
-So is there any advice/comments/anything you guys can say on telling me what is going on, chances of baby, ECT. I really don't know, I'm kinda' scared.

Thanks.

tripolar
December 1st, 2009, 01:05 AM
Did this happen in her? If yes then there is a chance of her getting pregnant.

Kinetic
December 1st, 2009, 02:16 AM
well pre cum still has sum sperm in it, u cuda fertilized her its a 50-50 chance but u wuda had to directly drip it in..... NVM to many details but yeah 50/50

nick
December 1st, 2009, 04:09 AM
If I understand you right you're saying some precum could have got transfered via a finger.

Well technically I guess there is a slight risk there but it seems very unlikely really.

Kaleidoscope Eyes
December 1st, 2009, 04:29 AM
well pre cum still has sum sperm in it, u cuda fertilized her its a 50-50 chance but u wuda had to directly drip it in..... NVM to many details but yeah 50/50

It's definitely much less than 50/50. There's probably less than a 50/50 chance of getting her pregnant even if they had full-blown unprotected sex (because I doubt that every other woman gets pregnant when this happens).

Precum can contain sperm, but it's in small amounts. Given that the only way it could have gotten into her vagina is by indirect transfer on someone's finger, the chances are dropped even lower. The sperm needs to get all the way to her cervix, way at the back of the vagina, to even have a chance of getting through to an egg. From there, you'd have to be lucky (or unlucky, as the case may be) enough to have one of those very few little spermy dudes actually attach to and fertilize an egg.

So, bottom line:
Yes, it's possible. But it is highly improbable.

Sage
December 1st, 2009, 05:12 AM
Don't hold your breath, man.

thenewguy728
December 1st, 2009, 06:09 AM
Well I'm holding my breath till she gets her period this month. Eh' it's making me worried for us though, she really worried about it, and I think it might be tearing a hole in our relationship
-Thanks for all your comments, they really helped :)

Misty.
December 1st, 2009, 01:54 PM
aww..dont worry the chances are realy realy less...but you should realy be cautious...especialy about the "down there areas"
rest to be realy sure..u can wait till she gets her periods as u said in the last comment :)
hope everything turns out fine.. all the very best :) n be careful...for future adventures ;)

sebbie
December 1st, 2009, 10:10 PM
If you are unsure then you should have got a morning after pill - It is a form of contraception that can be used 72 hours after sexual contact. The faster you use it, the more chance of it working.

In the UK you can get them free from NHS drop in centres, participating pharmacies, your GP or you can even buy them over the counter for £25.

Its better to take precautions than chances when it comes to stuff like this..