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cantwebefriends
November 30th, 2009, 04:36 PM
Well lately u know hormones get u all worked up started watching gay porn u know curious and wanting to experiment with guys... Its just that i dont want to turn out gay or bi. Cuz my parents will flip.. See my problem is that my older sister currently 19 is lesbian ive been to parades u know. And my mother always told me i expect u to carry out the baby bussiness im like yea mom ill bring in 2 haha. But with all this curiosity i dont want to turn out gay or bi cuz i need to give grandchildren you know help any advice?..:(:(:(
anyone help? advice?
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Stewart
November 30th, 2009, 05:57 PM
Watching gay porn does not determine if you're gay or bi. Also, wanting to experiment is normal among teens
I'm bi, because I've fallen in love with my best friend who's a guy.
You're not gay or bi if you are not BOTH emotionally and physically attracted to boys.
You'll figure it out in time, don't worry. If your parents can't accept you for who you are, then they're not very good parents.
You'll figure it out :)
cantwebefriends
November 30th, 2009, 05:59 PM
Thanks you put it in better perspective its just i want to live up too what my parents want it wouldnt be fair not have a grandchild for them but again not fair with me i think im bi i dont know yet freaking puberty can suck it lol i guess..:(
Stewart
November 30th, 2009, 06:01 PM
You can still have kids even if you do turn out to be gay.
Being gay does not ruin your dreams of raising a family, the reality may just be a little different :)
Whatever you do decide, don't be afraid of disappointing your family. As long as you're happy with yourself, that's all that matters
cantwebefriends
November 30th, 2009, 06:04 PM
You sir have helped me realize that i am my own person. I thank u for smacking sense into me hey ot my life right. Thanks man!!:yes:
Stewart
November 30th, 2009, 06:08 PM
Hey, anytime :)
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