Omg.. Please HELP!

[itzyogrll]

Okay I just turned 15. And, I'm a virgin. So, my boyfriend fingered me a while ago like any other day but today it was two fingers and it kinda hurt. But, he didn't go deep at all so.. we thought everything was cool. About 3 hours later i went home from his house and i went pee to check my underwear and i saw a little light orangy maybe red color stains. Idk what it was. But, there wasn't much of the stuff and it really didn't even hurt and i'm tighter than most girls as a fact so i would have expected to if i did. So alot have people said i haven't but i just want to make sure. Plus, i got my period just a few days after. And, after my period past i tried to finger myself to see how it is up there and now it hurts to even do it to myself when before it didnt.. So here's my questions.

Was it blood??

Did my hymen break or was it just torn a little or neither??

Did i pop my cherry??

if so, since i only did a little does that mean i wont bleed during sex when i have it??


If not could i just have bled from my vaginal hole not use to 2 fingers and only 1?


Why is it hurting when i figure myself now when it didn't before?


PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP! I hope to God i didn't pop it or break it.



NOTE!: I'm not asking whether i lost my virginity i know that i haven't so you don't need to tell me. I just want the questions i actually asked answered. Thank you.

[MysticalBurrito]

It could of been from there being two fingers instead of one, since your vagina might of only been used of one finger, it could have stretched a bit.
And you *most likely* did break your hymen.

[itzyogrll]

Though, i'm naturally tighter than most girls.. So do you think maybe it didn't break all the way? I just turned 15 btw if that helps any.

[MysticalBurrito]

If it breaks, it breaks I think.
And because your tighter than most it probably did.

[nick]

It sounds like you may have popped it, in which case that's it done, you cant mend it again. I'm a bit surprised that you seem so worried about it, unless its a big issue in your community or for religious reasons. Most guys accept that a broken hymen can occur in all sorts of ways these days and is not a sign that you are not a virgin or have been sleeping around.

[itzyogrll]

So will i still bleed when i loose my virginity bc of the tearing of my vaginal whole? Because lots of people said i will and that there's a possibility i didn't pop it.. And also i dudn't bleed much and it doesn't hurt at all and it should cause i'm like really really tight.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Why are you always so concerned about breaking your hymen? I'm genuinely curious.

No, your hymen will not fix itself over time, but no guy is going to be able to notice the difference. You're not suddenly super loose now, you're gonna seem the same way to him.

Bleeding during sex isn't a way of proving whether a girl is a virgin or not. Your partner isn't going to check the bedsheets afterwards and spaz out if there isn't a blood stain. Some girls bleed their first time, and some don't. I'd also like to point out that virginity is more than having an intact hymen. It has to do with having not had sex. Fingering =/= sex. Thus, you are still a virgin until you do have sex, regardless of if you bled a little this one time.

You might still bleed when you have sex your first time, or you might not. It doesn't matter either way, though, I don't know what you're so concerned about.

[itzyogrll]

Religion purposes.. I couldn't have done it.. Some said i didn't and some let me know it was a possibility..

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

If you absolutely cannot risk breaking your hymen, then you should just refrain from sticking anything in your vagina.

[itzyogrll]

Alright. But, you're honest opinion do you think i really popped it?...=[

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

It's possible, but it's also possible that you're fine. Even girls who aren't virgins bleed sometimes during or after sex, so the initial hymen-breaking isn't the only way you can find yourself bleeding afterwards.

There's no real easy way to tell--that's why it's not considered a reliable indicator of virginity. It's not very easy to just look and check it out, and it's not really going to feel any different.

[itzyogrll]

Will it hurt after it's broken? bc it didn't hurt at all for me so that's why people think i didn't break it.

[itzyogrll]

?...

[MandaMass]

for some it is extremely painful, others dont even notice. in your religion, do they actually check to see if it is broken or not?

[YesterdaysNews]

You may have just torn it a little, but like others said, it doesn't mean you're not a virgin anymore. Nowadays girls' hymens can break or tear from masturbation or even using a tampon in some cases, don't worry so much about it. Generally you may bleed when you first have sex but you may not, but it does not change the fact that when you do have sex for the first time that is when you lose your virginity.

and to answer your question "will it hurt after it's broken?" maybe for the first few times you have sex but with your hymen out of the way, it should make sex more comfortable.

[Wonders]

HAHA... He's probably just helping you stretch it out and get used to it for when he tries to have intercourse with you...? He's starting you out slow... HAHA!...

[itzyogrll]

I edited it.. Read now. Please.

[itzyogrll]

Anyone?

[Kartellmyst]

LOl...bad girl shame on you..rofl..j/k!
Don't worry about it..don't let him finger you again..if it hurts...don't force yourself until you are completely ready..You know you are still very young so...please take good care and don't get prego....b/c that would be terrible..

[DarkWingedAngel]

im pretty sure they wont ape shit if your hymen is broken
mine broke way before i even got fingered
when you do sports it can break
when you use tampons it can break too and im pretty sure there are more ways, other than the obvious
so don't worry about



as for if it will hurt when you have sex, no one knows
ether it does or doesn't

[SnowWolf]

Why exactly are you so worried about this? having it break does not mean anything...remember that tampons break it as well. think of it this way...you had your period. It changed you becasue you realized that you r grown up...it didnt change who u r at all tho.
Guys will not care if it is bropken or not. personally if was a guy, i would not want to sleep with a virgin bc i would not want her blood all over my genitals.

[itzyogrll]

So.. Did it break or no? Because people said the worst was that he might have torn it just a little. At the most and worst. Are they correct?

[DarkWingedAngel]

How are we supposed to know
it's your body
it could have but then again maybe it didn't only you or your bf would know if it broke or not and even then you might not know

[KidImage]

yeah ive fingered a girl before oh yeah it felt good... but thts not the point even if it did break you dont lose your virginaty after tht and besides guys arent ganna stick there cock in and be like "oh .01 centemeters off did you have sex?"

[KidImage]

So.. Did it break or no? Because people said the worst was that he might have torn it just a little. At the most and worst. Are they correct?

Could be maybe he like forced it in but maybe a little like.1 centemeters

[Giles]

Was it blood?? Probably

Did my hymen break??That's probably what the blood was.

Did i pop my cherry?? This is the same thing as breaking your hymen

if so, since i only did a little does that mean i wont bleed during sex?? It depends, I think that you can kinda just puncture it. and then there's breaking it


If not could i just have bled from my vaginal hole not use to 2 fingers and only 1? Eh?


Why is it hurting when i figure myself now when it didn't before? Maybe it's just tender down there because of the extra finger. Give it a few days, if it still hurts then you might want to get it checked out.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP! I hope to God i didn't pop it or break it.

[SnowWolf]

Ok, heres a question to end all questions! Have you ever used a tampon?

[itzyogrll]

I said it in the whole question thing no i haven't nothing has been in there but his fingers. And i've commented on why i care. I'm not asking whether i lost my virginity i know that i haven't so you don't need to tell me. I just want the questions i actually asked answered. Thank you.

[YesterdaysNews]

plenty of people have answered your questions. it's not possible for us to know if you broke your hymen or not because a) we're not gynocologists and b) we cannot examine you. if you really want to know if you've broken your hymen, go see a doctor. But based on what you've told us, it is most likely that you have torn or broken it in someway. There's not much else we can tell you.

[itzyogrll]

...Hmm =/...

[vic203140]

why are you always so concerned about breaking your hymen? I'm genuinely curious.

No, your hymen will not fix itself over time, but no guy is going to be able to notice the difference. You're not suddenly super loose now, you're gonna seem the same way to him.

Bleeding during sex isn't a way of proving whether a girl is a virgin or not. Your partner isn't going to check the bedsheets afterwards and spaz out if there isn't a blood stain. Some girls bleed their first time, and some don't. I'd also like to point out that virginity is more than having an intact hymen. It has to do with having not had sex. Fingering =/= sex. Thus, you are still a virgin until you do have sex, regardless of if you bled a little this one time.

You might still bleed when you have sex your first time, or you might not. It doesn't matter either way, though, i don't know what you're so concerned about.


i so agree

[itzyogrll]

This is way old. Don't comment on this anymore i already got my answer from a doctor.

[godnose]

Hymens can break from horseriding and straddling something like a fence in childhood. Some girls I have known think they never even had a hymen to start with! The hymen is only a little flap, doesn't go all the way over the hole. Any guy won't know what he's looking at, trust me. No one will know. It might not be completely gone.

You are still a virgin!! Definately a virgin. Like I said, they can break from completely innocent events.

[Lisa2995]

Maybe he popped ur cherry??

[AllThatIsLeft]

bumped. :locked: