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congressman94
November 29th, 2009, 12:23 AM
okay, so this is really confusing. I've been friends with this girl since 2nd grade meaning that we've known each other for almost 10 years. 2006, I moved from the Philippines to Canada. now I havent heard from my friends in 2 years but i do thanks to Facebook. Now, this friendship I've had with the girl pretty waned and I know for a fact that she did have a thing for me and I still have a thing for her. Now her profile is just there sitting and I am pretty scared to just randomly say hi and stuff. I know I'm a wimp. But i am really scared. I've never liked any other girl besides her. I don't know what that means but it's pretty f*kin weird. I get jealous sometimes when the other guys do comments like ur cute and I just want to beat the shit out of them. Sorry just had to let that out....Finally!!! So girls, how would you think I should approach this, I dont want to make it look weird and random so please any advice would be greatly appreciated :what:

Jean Poutine
November 29th, 2009, 03:17 AM
Late welcome to the country. Even though I'd separate from it >.>

Just say hi. If you've known her that long then why are you so scared? Just apologise for the long time it took, ask her how it goes, I dunno, keep it casual.

But obviously that's the only thing you can do, try to get in touch with her once more I mean. I mean there are no other options.

So just say hi, ask her for news, give some of your own and work up from there?

BlackenedSilver
November 29th, 2009, 03:58 AM
Agreed with uchimata :)

You will have to get to know her again before you jump into anything, talk to her normally and when you feel it's right, say something about it.

Art_dude
November 29th, 2009, 03:21 PM
I don't see why you'd torture yourself by reigniting those feelings if she is still in the philippines. I know that right now, this crush seems cute, but allow yourself to fall for other people. Being stuck loving someone who you'll probably not be with in the future is a waste of your time. Try to move on and realize there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
Re acquainting yourselves will be exciting for the first two minutes, but when reality kicks in, you'll be painfully aware of the obstacles preventing a relationship.

enzenzz
November 29th, 2009, 07:29 PM
Just say hi to her again. Rekindle the friendship. You don't have to do anything more. I'm sure she'll like it that you are in contact with her again.

Dreaming Cannibal
November 29th, 2009, 07:34 PM
hmm, well my opinion about a long distance relationship is, move on.
But if you don't want to, just say hi how are you or wassup nothing wrong with that

congressman94
December 2nd, 2009, 06:57 PM
Yes!!!! Yes!!!! Victory!!!! Victory!!!! She's going to be going to this prestigious university in the Phil. and guess what, I was actually planning to study fine arts there. Weird how we chose the same university though. She told me that she was going but I havent told here that I was going. The end of Grade 12 is just so much sweeter....