From Bad to worse in 5 seconds.

[wavey]

As some of you may know, i attempted to ask a girl out the other day, but i didnt. i was chatting to another girl i was frends with, told her that i liked this otehr girl and that girl told her and since then the girl i liked, hsa never spoken to me, i smiled at her the other day and she just looked.. complete opoisite to what she used to do.

My mate was sticking up for me and saying to me she was just a flirt and to get over it.

I dunno, i was talking to IAMSAM on Skype the other day and he said to confront her and say ur sorry for the roumers and such... i think this is a good idea but... i dunno if it would clear the air..
Ive got one more day before i see her..
Ill have to speak to some mates, but idk..

Never again shall i trust somebody with that info..

help / advice / personal experiances please; )

[BigBulge]

Did anybody besides the 3 mentioned in the above story know? If not, explain this to her. If she hates you still, rise above her and find somebody you cqn trust for stability in a relationship.

[Pudd]

leave it for a few days and if shes still mad tell her youre sorry

[Giles]

Ignore her like she ignored you. Then, if she likes you; she'll feel bad and come running. Hopefully.

[Gumleaf]

moving: boys puberty >>> relationships & dating

[sebbie]

As some of you may know, i attempted to ask a girl out the other day, but i didnt. i was chatting to another girl i was frends with, told her that i liked this otehr girl and that girl told her and since then the girl i liked, hsa never spoken to me, i smiled at her the other day and she just looked.. complete opoisite to what she used to do.




So you told a friend that you like a girl and it found its way back to the girl you like. Nothing really bad there in my opinion, friends speak about what is on their minds, who they like etc.

Her change in personality could be linked to her hearing about you liking her, maybe she likes you and is nervous, maybe she does not feel the same way, maybe she even has something else on her mind.



My mate was sticking up for me and saying to me she was just a flirt and to get over it.

I dunno, i was talking to IAMSAM on Skype the other day and he said to confront her and say ur sorry for the roumers and such... i think this is a good idea but... i dunno if it would clear the air..
Ive got one more day before i see her..
Ill have to speak to some mates, but idk..

Never again shall i trust somebody with that info..

help / advice / personal experiances please; )

It all depends on what rumours are going around, generally you will have to talk at some point or nothing will change. Just make sure you are tactful in the way you do it, and its probably best if it is a conversation between just the two of you and no friends interfering.