embarrassed by pubic hair

[damn almonds]

ok so im 13 w/ pubic hair &&my step mom like 2 cum in and wash my hair when im in the shower &&i dont like her seeing me naked because im so embarrassed by my pubic hair

(no- i will not shave- she would notice and she'd call me a slut)

[Faithfull]

Can't you just tell her you dont want her to come in whist you're in the shower anymore. No offece but isn't it a little odd that she's still comming in to wash your hair when you're 13 y.o.?

[XxHaViiK]

She shouldn't be coming in to wash your hair if you don't want her to. You should tell her that.

[bigboynow]

walk in on ur mom taking a shower

[damn almonds]

walk in on ur mom taking a shower

i have

[bigboynow]

i have

do it more

[damn almonds]

lol ok ^

she says i never get all the soap out

[Aηdy]

How long does it take you to shower? 5, 10? 15 minutes at the most. I'm pretty sure she can wait that long to wash her hair after you have showered. If you can, just lock the door or tell her to go away.

[Kartellmyst]

omg.....I shave and I'm not a slut...hair on vagina is like hairy legs to me.

[bagel]

You could trim the hair short if you don't want to shave it. If you do it little by little she won't notice.

But I agree with what the others said, it is a little weird for your step mom to be with you in the shower. If you don't like it you should ask her for some privacy. You're 13, you can wash your own hair.

If you want to shave your pubic hair though, you should do it. If your step mom would call you a slut for it she is crazy. I just shaved mine and I'm a virgin. Do what you want, and if she doesn't like it you just tell her that you are a not a slut, you don't need her opinion to do what you want with your own pubic hair, and that she shouldn't be looking at your area anyway.

[damn almonds]

You could trim the hair short if you don't want to shave it. If you do it little by little she won't notice.

But I agree with what the others said, it is a little weird for your step mom to be with you in the shower. If you don't like it you should ask her for some privacy. You're 13, you can wash your own hair.

If you want to shave your pubic hair though, you should do it. If your step mom would call you a slut for it she is crazy. I just shaved mine and I'm a virgin. Do what you want, and if she doesn't like it you just tell her that you are a not a slut, you don't need her opinion to do what you want with your own pubic hair, and that she shouldn't be looking at your area anyway.
she don't actually LOOK at it, but u know- she sees it cuz im butt naked in the shower!!! (pool party in our PJ's anyone? lol)

omg.....I shave and I'm not a slut...hair on vagina is like hairy legs to me.
i know... im sorry.
How long does it take you to shower? 5, 10? 15 minutes at the most. I'm pretty sure she can wait that long to wash her hair after you have showered. If you can, just lock the door or tell her to go away.lock the door? i can't even shut the door!!!! fuck that shit!!!!! i'm scared 2 be alone in a room!!! the problem is she actually walks in. :yawn:

lol ok ^

she says i never get all the soap out
quotin' myself... lol. and then SHE never gets the soap out. :lol:

[Sammi13]

lol ok ^

she says i never get all the soap out


That doesn't sound right to me. I would tell her that your 13 now and you want to shower by yourself and that you don't feel comfortable with her in there with you.

[Misty.]

umm..may be ur hair are too long ...thats why she wishes to wash them for u...i wont judge u cause of it...cause many of us have already done that in this thread..

To avoid embarresement i think u can do :-

1)u could sit in ur underwares...dont be BUTT NAKED..!!! [in case she asked why so..just say i m more comfortable this way]

2) u could tell her u dont like the pubes..and generaly talk about how can u get rid of them by shaving or by hair removal creams..and can getting rid of them TAGS u as a SLUT.. [who knows its just u thinking that she might tag u...when she actualy might not]

3)N considering the fact that being a step mom shes so concerned about u..she might be pretty close to u...so why not just try the simplest..and talk her out of washing ur hair(u could..if u think u can..tell her that u r embarresed..!!)

i hope this helps honey :)

[TheKingDavis]

thats really akward that a grown woman would want to wash a 13 y/o kids hair...

[jhxm]

she shouldnt be in there with you while youre showering. i havnt had my mom help me shower since i was a wee little fella... remind her your a big boy now and that youre fully capable of washing your own. hair.. unless she is hella fine lookin than invite her in next time..jk..kind of..

but if you want to shave than shave.. i do and i like way better.. just a tip of advice if you use a razor only shave down.. if you shave up you cut the hairs to close and let me tell you razor burn and ingrown hairs by your junk is not fun.. ive learned by trial and error... shave down.. thats about it..

[Misty.]

u are in girls puberty forum...n u refering to the op/person concerned as a guy :P lolz..

[Genia]

Be proud of your pubes babe - just tell your mom in no uncertain terms that you don't need her help anymore to wash your hair. That's what most of us are saying.

[Rebecca L Vaughn]

I don't think that a 13 year old needs her mom to wash her hair, especially when she is your step mom anyway.

[sara1220]

you're 13!!!! you're a big girl now & im pretty sure you are capable of washing your own hair that just seems really wrong to me that your stepmom comes in & washes your hair.

[DoveGreySands]

omg.....I shave and I'm not a slut...hair on vagina is like hairy legs to me.

This soooooooooooo much.

Your mam should understand that you're a growing girl now and if not you need to tell her. Just advise her you think you're too old to be naked around her and would prefer it if you had some privacy.

[Englishrose]

I think you and your stepmom need to sit down and talk to each other. At thirteen years of age, I think you are more than capable to wash yourself, I'm not seeing why you would need assistance with this. So I think you should create boundaries with your stepmom, tell her that your getting older now, and you feel that you should be able to wash yourself, on your own without her being present in the bathroom.

Next, why are you embarrassed about your pubic hair? There is nothing to be embarrassed about, its completely natural. Also, why does shaving it make you a slut? Shaving pubic hair is common place, with people shaving it completely off, or just trimming it, again, a natural occurrence. Is it you who thinks that shaving your pubic hair makes you a slut, and you believe your stepmom shares these thoughts or is it your stepmom who has told you shaving pubic hair makes you a slut? If it is your stepmom who has the problem I think this should be another conversation that whether she may not like shaving her pubic hair, it is your body.

[Gumleaf]

old thread

locked

[firesoul73]

if this is becoming a problem tell her to stop and if she doesn't talk to your dad maybe it would help with privacy and it sounds creepy for her to do that

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Am stephen you didn't lock it. . .

:locked: please do not bump old threads