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lilthinker
November 28th, 2009, 06:26 AM
at like the end of september my friend gave some boy my msn n number and spoke to him a little and then he had a crush on my other friend n she woundnt go out with him

i think flirts with girls alot and so does my friend he asked out

last friday he called me like 10 times or sumin then the next day i got credit and called him and i used up £10 talking to him which is weird as i havent met him

then all this week hes just been calling me and every day weve been talking for like 5/6hrs on tuesday i said that a few of my friends said he told them he fancied me than he admited that
on wednesday he asked me out and was like think about it i did and said yes but he was still like think about it now were both confused if were going out or not then he called me at like 12am

then on thursday when we spoke i said that on friday im going to my nans so i cant talk to him

on friday i finnish school at 3 and i looked at my phone and i already had 4missed calls from him

on my way home i called him back and quickly spoke to him before i went to my nans

in the call at like 8:30pm i had just woken up in the car and me n my dad were lost

when i got to my nans i went on msn and he started talking to me and asked "truely would you go out with me"
i said yh y?
then he went off msn but said could i call him but my mum wouldnt let me use the phone but i said i would call him today

im just kinda worried because hes always adding girls on fb and that but the thing is hes bare sweet i really dunno what to do all my friends said i should go out with him

next month me and one of my friends and him n one of his friends are gonna hang out but still thats like 3weeks away

please can i have so advice

Darkness
November 28th, 2009, 03:29 PM
What can we advice you on?
It's not really clear.

Sapphire
November 28th, 2009, 04:03 PM
If you are wary about his sincerity, leave things as they are for the moment. Time might help ease your uncertainty.

lilthinker
November 29th, 2009, 07:23 AM
he asked me out but hes keeps tryin make me jealous which is funny n he wont stop callin n textin me :/

lilthinker
November 29th, 2009, 04:47 PM
and now he sent me so long text about he loves me n wants 2 hold me which jus sounds like some crap u can say 2 get a gal sprung

Sapphire
November 29th, 2009, 04:51 PM
It sounds like he is saying things he thinks you want to hear and not what he genuinely thinks/feels.
If I were you, I'd not get involved with him. He sounds like a player and proclaiming his "love" over text this early on seems to back it up.

lilthinker
November 29th, 2009, 06:08 PM
ok thank yu :)

lilthinker
December 4th, 2009, 01:39 PM
i dumped him today he was stressing me to much with texting plus i found out he stabbed someone