I want people to answer this honestly.

[Shogun]

Do you think that there is someone your meant to be with forever? Like that special someone I suppose. And if so, do you think it's possible that someone is your special someone, but you aren't theirs?
I would like an honest answer, because I have a feeling people are going to try and be nice and say no no she's not the one etc. +1 for honesty :)

Thanks people!

-Shogun

[Black or White]

Every couple is different and so is the way they act etc I dont think theres this person youre meant to live with forever or destined to be with.

I believe that people can find great and true love in each other and yes, the you not being their special someone can also be true.

[Truth]

I honestly don't believe it. You can't be together forever, everything gets old.

[Quick_Sylver]

Every couple is different. Some could from highschool sweethearts to retiring together. Others could last a couple years. Hm. Yes I think your special someone could have their own special someone that isn't you. That's my idea of torture. Slow death of watching the one you love, love someone else.
~TP

[Kaius]

Yes I think your special someone could have their own special someone that isn't you. That's my idea of torture. Slow death of watching the one you love, love someone else.
~TP

Happened to me, Its nastier than it sounds, especially when that one person decides to treat you like dirt for loving them. But i believe your right. Everyone has their own special someone, but that special someones someone else, may not be you. You've gotta allow for that unfortunately. :/

[Rutherford The Brave]

Do you think that there is someone your meant to be with forever? Like that special someone I suppose. And if so, do you think it's possible that someone is your special someone, but you aren't theirs?
I would like an honest answer, because I have a feeling people are going to try and be nice and say no no she's not the one etc. +1 for honesty :)

Thanks people!

-Shogun

No, I don't think so. Relationships take work, alot of work. You need to put alot into a relationship, not expect it to work just because you two are ment for each other. If that person is taken well too bad find someone else.

[Oren]

I don't think so. I think that there is lots of people you could be happy together with, you know just mix.

[Aves]

In all honesty, life isn't some fairy tale where you know who is your special someone, and then you have to do jack shit to have a great relationship. (Pardon my french) But like Greg said, relationships do take a lot of work.

[ErykaInspire.]

I believe that everything happens for a reason.
Every couple is different, and a relationship is alot of work. But I do believe that they can last forever/until the day they die.
I met a man today who has been with a woman for 25 years and they never had a single fight.
You have to be able to work through things, talk them out, enjoy the little things, laugh, and love.
There's always going to be something that tries to tear you apart, but you have to be strong enough to over come it.
I waited for the guy I'm not with for OVER two years, now we're both happier than we've ever been.
Hearts have a way of telling you when someone is completely worth it. You have to learn to understand the difference between your heart and your mind. There's the "I think i'm in love.." and "I'm IN love!". There's a big difference. Maybe not many people understand it, but i've witnessed it first hand.

I think the one you're ATTRACTED to can love someone else, that just means they arn't meant to be with YOU.
Although, the boy I'm in love with dated two girls during those two years (11 months each.) and then he realized what an idiot he was being.
Yes, I was broken, I cried, I put "(: Cutee." comments on their pictures together, and it killed me. He knew that. And eventually he just couldn't do it anymore.
We grew very close during those two years, as well. So we understand eachothers opinions, pains, hopes, dreams, ect.
And in the past month, since we started dating, we've learned a helluvalot more.
There's things you learn in a lover that you would never learn about in a friend.
Those things are what can change how you feel about eachother.

I could go on about this topic, but i've covered the gist of it.
Yes, I do believe in forever.

[goneghost]

i believe in soul-mates and that you are with them forever but i dont think it has to be your partner i mean it could be your bestfriend or your brother/sister.

[Jordan...14]

I believe that theres someone your meant to be with but maybe not forever, theres somebody for everyone and all that jazz

[Shogun]

Happened to me, Its nastier than it sounds, especially when that one person decides to treat you like dirt for loving them. But i believe your right. Everyone has their own special someone, but that special someones someone else, may not be you. You've gotta allow for that unfortunately. :/

Yeah I second that, this is what's happening, thanks for you opinions people keep em coming.

[Aspiringanonymous]

I do not believe in a predestined 'perfect interpersonal match'. If such thing pertains to anyone, it is not so much the work of fate and past lifetimes as it is a spontaneous occurrence.

Most of all, this match does not always manifest in the form of a romantic relationship. This person could be a friend, a family member, a mentor figure, and so forth. The determining factor is not the presence or lack of passionate feelings. It is a degree of compatibility in perceptions, beliefs, and values beyond what could be explained with the concept of coincidence.

[Sage]

No, I don't believe in one specific person that's perfect for you, that's far too limiting.

[drumir93]

No. Like society and culture its self individuals evolve with time. One person that is right for you when you are 20 may not be right for you when you are 50. Consequently, someone that is wrong for you when you are 20 may be right for you when you are 50. And if you are extraordinarily lucky there will be someone that is right for you throughout life and you may find them. But they and yourself will grow and change like I said and staying together will take hard work and cooperation.
Honestly, I think all of these exist for all people, there are to many of us for it not to. But whether you happen to be at the right place at the right time is an other story.

[Art_dude]

No I don't think there's a perfect soul mate. I agree with Deschain when she said that its far too limiting. Relationships take work. Unfortunately kids are growing up with a warped idea of love thanks to "twilight" and all that other bubbly disney crap.

Love is a complex emotion, and sharing it with someone else is even more complex. I think people who delude themselves that everything happens for a reason are wasting their lives waiting for someone who doesn't exist. And as a result, simplifying the beautiful complexity of love. Expectations are too high. Love is beautiful but it is sure as hell ugly too. Love is fighting, morning breath, and seeing each other take a shit. Ever wonder why they don't put that kind of thing in movies? Because it's ugly. It's not easy. But that's love kids. it ain't always rainbows and fucking unicorns.

[Appleton]

I can only speak to the relationship that I have right now. I believe that we were put together for a reason and that we have this connection that keeps us close. Will it last forever? We think so.

[cherry_boi]

lol i've based the last 4 years of my life around believing there is that 'special someone" ur meant to be with

whether or not u ever meet them is up for debate but in my mind yes i do believe in soulmates

[Sage]

I can only speak to the relationship that I have right now. I believe that we were put together for a reason and that we have this connection that keeps us close. Will it last forever? We think so.

Put together for a reason? That's pretty pretentious when you think about it. In my opinion those sorts of beliefs just make breaking up way harder.

[Strength]

no, peoples like me are destined alone.:(

[TheKingDavis]

Honestly?

No.

There is no such things as soul mates (people you are meant to be with forever

[Sage]

no, peoples like me are destined alone.:(

Yes, people who hold that attitude tend to force it upon themselves.

[Suicune]

No I don't think there's a perfect soul mate. I agree with Deschain when she said that its far too limiting. Relationships take work. Unfortunately kids are growing up with a warped idea of love thanks to "twilight" and all that other bubbly disney crap.
Couldn't agree more. Children these days are too focused on celeberties and their relationships getting the idea of a perfect somebody. It's a load of crap.

I don't believe in a destined relationship with somebody. I mean that person may live in the most northern point of Russia and you may live in Cape Horn in South America. It's a very small chance you may ever meet. There's no such thing.

[Mrred]

I think so yes.

[Misty.]

umm...look at couples they are together..despite their fights and issues..!!!

personally, i feel there is someone i can gell up in the best possible way...and even though we get irritated of each other during the course of time..we fight each others head off..or anything...we'll STILL wish to be together..

WHY???? cause ill love that person..!!! and because i would be so used to their presense..


And in case u think ...u found a soulmate...but he/she doesnt takes u as their soulmate..!!! then..???? then sweety..i think ur wait is still on :) because u ll eventauly end up finding a better person.. :) i totaly belive in this :)