asexual?

[MacMilker]

okay so my friend thinks hes asexual, this is very weird to me because i thought i didnt exist. he basically isnt thinking anything sexual towards anyone and doesnt want a bf or gf at all in the future

is this just a phase or is he really asexual help, i really like him (like like him) so this makes it hard for me

[Oren]

It could be possibly be a phase, best thing is just to support him in his decision; they do exist.

[XxHaViiK]

It's possible it's a phase. Or he might be serious. OR he might be faking it because he just doesn't like anyone. I dunno. But if you like him, I'd try to bring up sexual subjects to see if they "spark" his interest.

[Oren]

It's possible it's a phase. Or he might be serious. OR he might be faking it because he just doesn't like anyone. I dunno. But if you like him, I'd try to bring up sexual subjects to see if they "spark" his interest.
Maybe he likes you back but is trying to hide it. <--- Not trying to give you false hope.

Talking is the best thing to do, don't be shy :)

[XxHaViiK]

Invalid DOES have a point, he might like you and he's just trying to hide. Good point there.

[greg95]

okay so my friend thinks hes asexual, this is very weird to me because i thought i didnt exist. he basically isnt thinking anything sexual towards anyone and doesnt want a bf or gf at all in the future

is this just a phase or is he really asexual help, i really like him (like like him) so this makes it hard for me
i guess he is at a point where he is not interested by going out with girls, but maybe it will come later, i cant figure out why this would be hard for you, nothing wrong with that, that's his life, if his fine with that, then you should be too ;)

[Stewart]

My friend went through a phase like this. He wasn't asexual, but he thought he was.

He now has a girlfriend. It's real, but it's very rare. Just support your friend in anything he chooses :)

[MacMilker]

because i like him a lot, im going out with his crush now...and i think he faked it to repel me which hurts a lot even though i have a girlfriend, a girl who hes liked forever so i think it might make him jealous which isnt right but im happy because i feel he deserves it for lieing to me, i mean come on changing your sexuality because you just cant say hey, i dont like you...wow

[Aspiringanonymous]

If the claim was consciously false, it usually does not take too long for that to be revealed.

I am a self-identified asexual. Personally, it is much more difficult to reveal this than it is to say "sorry I'm not interested", simply due to the amount of skepticism that surrounds this rare phenomena. I really don't need people coming after me saying that I'm in denial of the sexual aspect of my being; it's extremely frustrating.

If, for example, asexuality gained just as much recognition and momentum as homo- or bi-sexuality in the norm, it would most certainly be easier to tell someone who is a trusted friend that I'm not disinterested in you as a person, I'm simply disinterested in romantic relationships.

[MacMilker]

thanks that sheds a lot of light on whats really going on