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OhMightyLion
November 27th, 2009, 08:10 PM
So there is this girl in my new school who I find well...pretty. I started a friendship with her but it just made me like her more and more. I found out my best friend likes her too (but he doesn't know I like her too) and well he got advice from our crush's best friend. She said that our crush had gone out with alot of the guys in our grade.....

The next couple of weekends I hung out with my crush, my best friend (the guy that likes her too) , our best female friend, and 2-3 more friends. during those weekends my crush was kinda flirting with me? Here are some examples of what she did:

1) She was talking on the phone with me one night and told me to check her profile pic and I said I couldn't at the moment, the next day when I sa when I saw her profile pic it was a picture of her and it also siad; "when you look me in the eyes and tell me that you love me everything is alright, ily".

2) One morning at school she came to me and said "I was thinking aout you last night"

3) She always says hi to me in the morning in a different way then she does to other guys (she kisses me on the cheeck and hug/squeezes me ).

4) She tells me "I love you" and throws me kisses when she walks by my classroom to go to gym.

5) She saw me arive at my friend's house (she had slept over there) and she screamed and jumped on me and told me "I've been thinking aobut you all day".

6) She wanted me to sit next to her while she was in the pool, she swam towards me and grabbed my hand while she fooled around in the water for like 15-20 minutes.

7) She sent me a txt messege saying " I love you and adore you alot" and I replied "You don't know how much I love and adore you" and she went aww

8) We were laying on the grass and i streched my arm/hand and she put her hand on mine (holding hands?).

9) She complained that she looked fat (and she really isn't) and I told her "You look perfect, a guy should love you no matter what you look like" and she said "I wish all guys were like you".

Everything was going well until we went to the same halloween party and she spent the whole night with two friken guys and she had finished making out with one of them (Who was an ex of her's) and then the next week she was kinda dating another one of her ex's (but they don't seem like it, or at least they aren't anymore)

I don't know if she likes me or if she doesn't but I'm confused.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!??!! I need advice. Do you think she kinda/or does like me? Should I avoid her? ?????????????????????

Rutherford The Brave
November 27th, 2009, 08:15 PM
Go up and ask her. Talk to her, ask if she would like to hang out with you. Make your move bro, before your best friend gets in there, or one of her exes gets back. Prove to her that you love her.

OhMightyLion
November 27th, 2009, 08:18 PM
Go up and ask her. Talk to her, ask if she would like to hang out with you. Make your move bro, before your best friend gets in there, or one of her exes gets back. Prove to her that you love her.

You know what...your right!!!! I got to make my move very soon, I'm pretty sure there are like 5-7 guys after her......

XxHaViiK
November 27th, 2009, 11:08 PM
Yeah, if she's doing all of that to you, she most likely loves the hell out of you. I'd get moving quickly. The reason she might have been doing that stuff on halloween could be because she just needed a tension release. I'd ask her out quickly before she looses interest.

OhMightyLion
December 3rd, 2009, 03:01 PM
UPDATE!!!!

I founded out that she and her ex aren't dating again. From what I heard/understood her ex said he didn't want anything to do with her...

Ohh and today she did something she hadn't done to me in a loooonnnnngggg time; I got to school and such and when she arrived she gave me the biggest hug and told me she missed me alot, she also told me she missed the way we hugged each other, etc.

Do you think this means anything or is it just a friendship thing, I'm kinda confused!!

Rutherford The Brave
December 3rd, 2009, 03:04 PM
UPDATE!!!!

I founded out that she and her ex aren't dating again. From what I heard/understood her ex said he didn't want anything to do with her...

Ohh and today she did something she hadn't done to me in a loooonnnnngggg time; I got to school and such and when she arrived she gave me the biggest hug and told me she missed me alot, she also told me she missed the way we hugged each other, etc.

Do you think this means anything or is it just a friendship thing, I'm kinda confused!!

Thats for you to interpret, whether or not it was a friendly thing.

laurita_21
December 3rd, 2009, 03:20 PM
well if she's done all of that then i think she technicly loves you lol
AND ahe likes the jonas brothers :) ! she used the lyrics from theyr song :)!!!!

don't panic, flirt with her :) then try asking her out :)

Art_dude
December 4th, 2009, 05:36 PM
DUDE - DO YOU NEED ANYMORE CLUES?!?!? This girl LIKES YOU. It doesn't get anymore obvious than "I love you, I wish all guys were like you, I was thinking about you all day." Seriously? Make a move - or else she'll give up on you XD

Clawhammer
December 4th, 2009, 05:49 PM
But be careful this involvement with a ton of other guys could be a bad thing, you don't want to get your heart broken if you find out she's a wee bit of a slag. Plus, you could make some enemies out of the other guys, and watch your motives, you don't want to cause yourself trouble later on. Go ahead, don't be shy, but be wise about it.

cherry_boi
December 4th, 2009, 10:44 PM
umm she's def showing interest in you, lol girls don't tell guys they love them, and kiss/hug them, and txt them saying they've been thinking about you if they aren't intrigued lol

she seems like she's very "flirty" tho...making out with several guys in one night

nothing necessarily wrong with that, just make sure u kno wat ur getting into if ur looking to start a relationship with her

if u wana kno if she's looking for a serious relationship, ask her out on a 1 on 1 date, and talk to her, be clear about wat u want

JasonClark
December 5th, 2009, 02:44 AM
most chicks dig it when guys are straight forward (from my own experiences) just go talk to her.

Chicks dig the honches ;)