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There_Goes_My_Life
May 5th, 2006, 09:16 PM
This is embarrassing for me to ask but... ok... when my boyfriend and I have sex (only three times so far) he doesn't take off his shirt or boxers... is this normal?? It doens't really bother me... i'm just wondering...
MoveAlong
May 6th, 2006, 12:31 AM
I'm not sure what you mean. Do you mean that he doesn't take his shirt or boxers off infront of you, or that he doesn't take his shirt or boxers to have sex (:confused:)?

He might feel a bit awkward, I know I might. (I have to get used to it infront of other people almost every school-day next semester, b/c of junior high)
Just continue your relationship as normal. He will get used to it. One time just ask him to take off his shirt/boxers. If he says no, then ask one more time. If not, then let it go. He will eventually do it.

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~Dazed&&Confused~
May 6th, 2006, 01:56 AM
Ye it's normal... but if don't like it... then tell him.
ScotsGirl
May 6th, 2006, 05:33 AM
He could be self conscious about his body?
I agree with the others though, just talk to him.

That, or....you could just take them off for him... :D

Have fun! ;)
xxx
Aηdy
May 6th, 2006, 05:52 AM
He could be self conscious about his body?
I agree with the others though, just talk to him.

That, or....you could just take them off for him... :D

Have fun! ;)
xxx

I totally agree :D ... hes probally just a bit self concious about his body, but once that hes done it he'll be ok!
There_Goes_My_Life
May 6th, 2006, 08:16 AM
I'm not sure what you mean. Do you mean that he doesn't take his shirt or boxers off infront of you, or that he doesn't take his shirt or boxers to have sex (:confused:)?

He might feel a bit awkward, I know I might. (I have to get used to it infront of other people almost every school-day next semester, b/c of junior high)
Just continue your relationship as normal. He will get used to it. One time just ask him to take off his shirt/boxers. If he says no, then ask one more time. If not, then let it go. He will eventually do it.

~~~~~

He doesn't take off his shirt or boxers to have sex... but like i said, it doesn't really bother me... i was just wondering if there was a reason or it's just normal or something *shrugs*
Aηdy
May 6th, 2006, 03:05 PM
how can you do it if he doesnt take his boxers off!?!?!
~Dazed&&Confused~
May 6th, 2006, 03:27 PM
Like when you goin to the toilet...
MoveAlong
May 6th, 2006, 03:36 PM
It's ok, just ask him. Confort him. Sex is about love and connection, (and fun) and he should let his guard down with more trust over time.

~P.S. pinkcar congratulations on your 2,500th post!
LIsailer19
May 6th, 2006, 03:50 PM
not sure if this is irrelevant but do u take off ur top when u do it? he might be embarassed to fully undress if u still have on a shirt or bra or something...
There_Goes_My_Life
May 6th, 2006, 10:23 PM
how can you do it if he doesnt take his boxers off!?!?!

Like when you goin to the toilet...

Actually no... what he wears is shorts that don't have that hole thingy... he just kinda 'pulls it out' above his shorts like... idk if that makes sense to you but... yeah
There_Goes_My_Life
May 6th, 2006, 10:25 PM
the first time...everything of mine was off, the second... just the bottom stuff... and the third time, everything of mine was off again...
Aηdy
May 7th, 2006, 11:01 AM
Actually no... what he wears is shorts that don't have that hole thingy... he just kinda 'pulls it out' above his shorts like... idk if that makes sense to you but... yeah

i understand what you mean lol.. i think you should just pull them off!