relationship with dad

[sigroigarak]

Hey! I was wondering... When I was 15, my dad told me that he had heard me talking to my brother about thinking of having sex. He told me that he was proud of me but wanted me to use protection. He had a box of condoms with him and said, "let me show you how to use it!" He dropped his pants and pulled out his big uncut cock. I dropped my pants and we practiced putting on condoms. After, we had really big erections and I asked my dad if we could watch some porn. He put on a porno and we jacked off to it.

My dad and I have a really open relationship! Is it almost too wierd???

[TheKingDavis]

I would say its kind of wierd, but as long as he didnt force you to do anything you didnt want o do... then i guess nothings wrong

[Stewart]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again

[BigBulge]

There are quite a few people with father-son relationships like that, but they are a minority. In some ways, having this kind of relation is good - many Dads would completely blow their tops if they knew their child had been watching porn (like mine) whereas your Dad knows the situation and would understand. In other ways, this is kinda weird - you could get into a habit of JOing with him, which is not right after it is no longer a one-off.

I really would not recommend being quite so open.

[MacMilker]

well...uhm..................................................................... i mean this is totally weird to me because my dad would never do that, i mean hes awesome but...no. i think its a little weird but if it brings you guys even closer (is that even possible) then its a plus

[trouble]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again

ok this is a question for you. How is it soooo inapropiate??? Many people have open relationships with their dads, as long as he wasnt forced, its all good, besides he was the one who asked if they could watch porn. Think about that!

[fallen xxi]

Yeah, i mean it's pretty wrong but you're also family and what goes on inside your house should typically stay there. Unless it gets too "out of order" per se.

[Suicune]

(I don't even think stories can go too much into detail here)
Well it's nice that you guys have a really good relationship but personally I never would do what you did.

[greg95]

Hey! I was wondering... When I was 15, my dad told me that he had heard me talking to my brother about thinking of having sex. He told me that he was proud of me but wanted me to use protection. He had a box of condoms with him and said, "let me show you how to use it!" He dropped his pants and pulled out his big uncut cock. I dropped my pants and we practiced putting on condoms. After, we had really big erections and I asked my dad if we could watch some porn. He put on a porno and we jacked off to it.

My dad and I have a really open relationship! Is it almost too wierd???

after writing this message there was a wanking ...

[sigroigarak]

what is that supposed to mean? what did you mean by that? i am simply asking a question about our relationship?

[rageingecho]

it's fine as long as you dont touch each other

[Kinetic]

as long as you wern't forced and he didnt touch you and you were fine then its all good... whats at ur house stays at your house... i wudn't tell people that though, they would consider ur dad pedo

[xSebastian]

hmm...
i really don't know what to say about this.
i mean him showing how to put the condom on i guess it's fine, he's educating you, but jacking off with him?
that's a little gross.
as long as you guys didn't touch each other.

[luvthissite]

did it feel weird, wrong or ok to YOU? if it felt wrong or weird, don't do it again. it is that simple. most likely it will never happen again and was just a one time thing, your dad probably thought he was trying to help you, in his own way. just move on and don't worry about it.

personally, i think it is a little weird, but just move on.

[greg95]

what is that supposed to mean? what did you mean by that? i am simply asking a question about our relationship?
by that i mean that there's no problem with a father talking about sex and stuff with his children, but trying condoms together, watching porn together and wanking together, i dont believe in it ...

[Kevi Coz]

I think that is totally inapropriate, dont do it again...

[Giles]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again
Agreed
ok this is a question for you. How is it soooo inapropiate??? Many people have open relationships with their dads, as long as he wasnt forced, its all good, besides he was the one who asked if they could watch porn. Think about that!
SHUT UP!
I'm not the person you were quoting, but I support him.
How is it soooo inapropiate???
1. It's so inappropriate because it's his dad!
Showing him how to put a condom on is fine, it's educational.
Masturbating together IS wrong, it can't be called curiosity because it's his dad!

Many people have open relationships with their dads, as long as he wasnt forced, its all good
2. Ok, as open as that... really?
He wasn't forced: who cares? It's still wrong! If he was forced, then it would be sexual assault. Then it would be even worse.

besides he was the one who asked if they could watch porn
3. That makes him an idiot...
No offence to the OP... why would you even want to do that?
It's not remotely curious related, being curious about your dad.. Seriously doubt it.

OP: Don't ever do that again, it's wrong on so many levels. Anyone that thinks this is remotely OK is just as much of an idiot as you.
I wouldn't be surprised if I get bad rep for this but I don't care, I had to voice my opinion.

[FalconSmash]

Even if it is fake, I wish fathers would be more proactive like this to show their sons how to properly use protection.

Because a lot of teens who have sex don't really know how it works. Open relationships build trust and understanding, I don't thin kthere's anything wrong with that.

I mean, I actually had to ask my mother, which was TERRIBLY embarrassing. All my dad ever did was tease and pressure me about sex. I didn't get an open relationship.

[sjnp95]

I think its fine I have a open relationship but I don't think he would do that with me I mean he kniws I masturbate so its fine you did that.

[Severus Snape]

That's too far man

[Bougainvillea]

Uh. Yeah, that's...not really normal. But normal is different for everyone. So unless you felt uncomfortable. I don't know.

I really wouldn't encourage this type of relationship though.

[unidanman]

Well it's nice that you guys have a really good relationship but personally I never would do what you did.

agreed

[Silent]

In my opinion this is really weird to do with your dad. Having a open relationship is ok but the whole jacking off and stuff with him is odd.

[jockstrap47]

Dude I think it great that you and your dad have such a close relationship I wish my dad was that cool

[DjDream]

Well i guess its different that the usual father son relationship but wat the heck

[sjnp95]

Its fine I mean they are related and I see nothing wrong

[qwerty12]

ha i wish my dad was like that!

[Fourth Dimension]

Thats Messed Up

[mrcoffeshop]

as long as u aint hurting him and he aint hurting you it seems as if u 2 havemore of a friend relationship more than a father son relationship, but who am i to say? but yea

[thatnathanguy]

Ummmm.... i think it's great that you have a close relationship with your dad, and that he is willing to talk openly to you about this stuff, but really? was jacking off together necessary? I kinda think it should stop at talking. If he really wants to make sure you know how to use the condom he could use a banana or something... But doing sexual things like JO together with your dad just isn't right, IMO.

[Giles]

ha i wish my dad was like that!

Really... think about what you just said..
You'd like it if you could masturbate with your dad?

[kenshin8106]

i guess its good to have that form of a relationship, i would never do nything like that, i never let my dad talk to me about sex and stuff, nor my mom, you find out on ur own basically lol id rather not have them be akward, cus i know it would prolly be as awkward for them 2 lol so its weird...but good at the same time i guess

[Fruit_Tart.]

I think he was jus trying to "reach a hand out to you". But i dont think he'll do it again. He jus prolly wanted to make sure you know how to be protective during sex.

[Drusilla Rules]

yea that is weird especially as he dropped his pants first

[Impact13]

i think that is was normal for your dad to:

Tell you about condoms
Show you how to put them on
And introduce you to porn

but what was not normal is you and your dad masturbating together.
Does that happen often?
What happened after?
PM me with the answers please :yawn:

[Impact13]

ha i wish my dad was like that!

agreed lol

[Jomiseguel]

It is crazy!

Well, it is not normal at all. I wouldn't do it with my father, and if I have a son in the future, I wouldn't do it with him.

[Ghoti]

Lololololololl

[Giles]

Lololololololl

What an amazingly helpful comment!
I've never been more excited by a post in my entire time on Vt.

[mzakpitt]

i mean my dad would never do tht but like "trouble" said...as long as it wasnt by force i guess its ok...i mean...ya lol

[Longford]

You should be aware that showing pornography to minors is illegal. Depending on country, it could be considered a felony. So no, not a good idea.

[booo]

ok this is a question for you. How is it soooo inapropiate??? Many people have open relationships with their dads, as long as he wasnt forced, its all good, besides he was the one who asked if they could watch porn. Think about that!

agree with you 100%

[Virgin Pride]

Talking about it is completely normal, and showing you how is normal unless he was getting a kick out of it. J/o ing with your dad is not normal and that is very innapropriate for him to do.

[nnnm]

Well, if you really wanted to do something like this, I mean thats your decision and you should base it off your own personal morals. Personally, my dad is cool but he's more the whatever, IDC kind of guy unless you do something wrong, and I really cant see him doing that.

[nick]

Its not normal at all and I find it pretty sick. If a dad wants to show his son how to put on a condom he's not going to come out and do it on his own erect penis, thats gross, he would more likely demonstrate on a banana or a carrot or something like that, same as in sex ed. I mean what would you think if your class teached behaved like that at school?

[Giles]

Its not normal at all and I find it pretty sick. If a dad wants to show his son how to put on a condom he's not going to come out and do it on his own erect penis, thats gross, he would more likely demonstrate on a banana or a carrot or something like that, same as in sex ed. I mean what would you think if your class teached behaved like that at school?

I agree. I might even go as far as showing him how to put the condom on a penis (his) wouldn't be too bad.
It's the masturbation thing that gets me.
I just think it's really sick.

[gone]

This is not normal, but if you enjoyed it then..
what ever floats your boat.

[dantheman5000]

kinda creepy dude but whatever.

[NMon]

It's a little... no a lot, off, but as long as he didn't touch you, I guess it's alright.

[kevkev]

It happend... what ever.... you guys are good buddsss

[Mysterious Skin]

my dad also did this but only the condom part

[Inconvenience]

well, u can call him JERK afterwards, instead of DAD. i wish to see your moms face if she'd hear this ;)

wtf

[aussie_chub]

Its completely inaproppriate and a form of petophilea even though he didnt touc you he still did sexual acts with you and its sick besides the point you are not of sound mind if you think its normal

[Inconvenience]

Its completely inaproppriate and a form of petophilea even though he didnt touc you he still did sexual acts with you and its sick besides the point you are not of sound mind if you think its normal

absolutely ;)

[onitsuka]

well its not like he was forced. I think its fine that his dad showed him how to use protection like that, its not a big deal. The masturbation is a little odd, but again, he wasn't forced. A fair question is would you ever do it again if the opportunity presented itself?

[WakeyEr]

I think its fine. The condom thing is GREAT, i think. If my dad would show me how to put a condom on, i would be greatful. At least I would know how to put it on. And the JO, at least He asked his dad. If his dad dident ask him, its all good. Nothing illeagle, but kinda weard. The condom thing tho, I think, Its fine.

[Freshprince]

Akward?

[Joe123]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again

who do you think you are? don't tell him that! who are you, his mother? Just because you don't think it's right for that to happen, dosen't mean you needed to scold. You could've said "I think that's wrong" or "This is how I feel.

this probably isnt my place to say, but i'm just sticking up for what i believe. THIS IS A FORUM FOR ADVICE.

[sulliledge]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again

Who the funk do you think you are you stupid funking noisy bastard. Would you go and funk yourself you tick cat. Are you his funking gay father or something? Jesus christ almighty like, the child was only asking you a question.:yeah:

[Zazu]

Who the funk do you think you are you stupid funking noisy bastard. Would you go and funk yourself you tick cat. Are you his funking gay father or something? Jesus christ almighty like, the child was only asking you a question.:yeah:

No need to swear so much dude, chill. Swear words replaced.

Also, he was just giving his answer and reflected opinion on a post as you are. There's still no need for those swear words though.

[GeneralCrash70]

that's some intense bonding there...

[BigE]

That is kinda wierd. But honestly if my dad did that I'd Jo with him 2

[cody2010]

No, that is extremely inappropriate for him to do that. DON'T do it again

ok who the hell are you to tell someone what they can or can't do. your comment is more "inappropriate" than anything the poster could have said. (or anyone else for that matter)

sorry i had to get that out.

i wouldn't do this with my father but do what you want! :)

[biboyy]

I think it's okay. You guys aren't touching each other anways o_O