j-off with a friend

[sigroigarak]

Hey! Last night, my friend invited me over to his house to chill. His parents were out of town so we were able to have a few beers. Once we were tipsy, we started talking about girls and he suggested porn. We started watching it, got horny, and eventually stripped down to wank. We were wanking when he took a bottle and started sticking it up his ass hole. I freaked out and asked him what he was doing! He said it felt good! I freaked out and left! Since he was doing this, is he trying to tell me that he is gay???

I need HELP! THANKS!

[NeverLetGo]

Uh, not necessarily. It's just anal stimulation. He could be gay or he could be straight, bi or curious, but if you're a true friend you won't care what his sexuality is.

[Skeletal-Chic]

True, some straight guys like anal stimulation. When you said you left did you just leave the room or did you go home? I can understand how it might be a bit of a suprise but if you really are his friend his sexuality won't bother you. He may have just been drunk and lost his inhibitions, god knows I do when I've had a few ^_^

[BigBulge]

He invited you round his house, gave you beer and porn and you run away? I think that's kinda harsh, you should apologise for that ASAP. I like fingering myself for extra stim - it doesn't make me gay! Even if he was gay, what difference would it make? It's not like he wanted to do it with you, he was using a beer bottle!

[trouble]

no he is not. anal masturbation in many cases is not considered to ba a gay act but a form of stimulation enjoyed by many men gay or not

[fallen xxi]

Doesn't mean he's gay he just likes anal masturbation..which I think is nasty right along with you...but no that doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.

[fohawk]

that would have been fun and it was just anal stinulation hes not gay

[XxHaViiK]

No, he's not gay. There are many straight men that enjoy anal stimulation. I don't like it, but I'm fine with anyone that does.

[sigroigarak]

thanks! however, is fingering your ass and using a beer bottle as a dildo the same when considering straight anal stimulation?

[luvthissite]

OK, I will admit using a bottle on the anus is a little extreme (for me), but I find your situation a little perplexing. you say that you both stripped down, and were masturbating yourselves in front of each other? I would say if you were willing to do that (it is ok), that the bottle thing would not have resulted in fleeing the area!! just my 2 cents. i would say if you were not comfortable with it, that you could have said so, and said something like, "i am not down with that, do you want to do something else" started to put your clothes back on, and if he stopped, you could continue to masturbate, but if he still kept with the bottle, you could have put your clothes back on, made it clear you wanted to do something else, and if he continued with bottle, then i would have told him to make a choice, the bottle, or you for that night.
hope it all works out for you, I would not get too worked up about it, if you are not comfortable with it, all you need to do is SAY SO, and I bet he stops.

[sigroigarak]

okay! i did not flee the site...i simply finished my business in another room...