Tried it...

[Oren]

After coming out of a gay relationship, a few months later i asked a girl out...

Long story short it hasn't worked for me...
I'm not sure if it's just the fact i'm barely attracted to her or it's just like a normal relationship.
Breaking up with her tomorrow but I don't feel bad about it...

Hmm... i thought it was something interesting to discuss.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Why hasn't it worked out for you?
is it because it's a girl? or just not all that good of a relationship.

[Oren]

Why hasn't it worked out for you?
is it because it's a girl? or just not all that good of a relationship.

I'm not exactly sure... I think i have mixed feelings on both sides of it...

[IAMWILL]

Well first, are you Bi, Straight, Gay?

You need to establish how you feel before you can just jump into a relationship, because its altogether pointless to be in a relationship when you don't truly like the person and want to be with them for other reasons besides just having a girlfriend or physical stuff and such.

[Sammi13]

It could just be her or it could be that she's a girl. If you don't like someone, you don't like someone and you can't help it. You can try dating both girls and guys until you figure it out. Take your time and just find out what kind of person you want.

[XxHaViiK]

Well, you shouldn't just jump after someone. You should take your time look at which girl you think you'd like the most, and see if you can develop a friendship. If you feel a strong attachment, then take the next step and make it more then a friendship.

[Oren]

Well first, are you Bi, Straight, Gay?

You need to establish how you feel before you can just jump into a relationship, because its altogether pointless to be in a relationship when you don't truly like the person and want to be with them for other reasons besides just having a girlfriend or physical stuff and such.
I consider myself gay but i thought i had feelings for her... it then started going downhill and the feelings got smaller and finally break up.

Well, you shouldn't just jump after someone. You should take your time look at which girl you think you'd like the most, and see if you can develop a friendship. If you feel a strong attachment, then take the next step and make it more then a friendship.
I spent about 2 weeks chatting with her for over an hour a day before asking her out... Like i said up there somewhere^ i did have feelings but they lessened.

[IAMWILL]

Sounds like you tried to like her but never did.

Sometimes you need to accept reality and accept that you could be gay.

[Misty.]

I feel may be because u wanted to check wether this would work or not( u dating a girl) that in just analysing it...u kinda lost the spark :(
its like keeping a constant vigil on yourself..n in doing so u forgot to actualy relish the relationship :P

next time who ever u date...just go with the flow..then may be...it wil be a hit :) n wont flop like this :(