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Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 06:24 AM
My latest ex's girlfriend wants to talk. What should I do? He really messed me up, but he's still a friend. I'm afraid that she might want to start something.Any help/advice? Please and Thank you.
Cybertone
November 24th, 2009, 01:04 PM
Just hear her out. If you don't like what she says, then tell her.
jack straw
November 24th, 2009, 03:28 PM
Is it your last Ex's Girlfriend? or... because I'm a little confused. I'd like to see if I could help with this though cuz I've had alotta experience with working with ex's and people wanting to talk and etc...
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 03:36 PM
Okay. My ex boyfriend ditched me after cheating for a month. Long story short I sort of lost it for a while. Now his girlfriend wants to talk to me.
jack straw
November 24th, 2009, 03:53 PM
Do you know what she wants to talk about?
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 03:56 PM
Nope. she just said 'I don't want to be enemies, maybe we could talk'.
Art_dude
November 24th, 2009, 04:07 PM
It's slightly odd that she wants to talk, but she seems like a decent enough person to grant that request. Just give her a chance. Who knows? She might have something interesting to say.
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 04:17 PM
hmm. okay. I'll keep you guys posted.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 04:43 PM
(Gasp how dare she go out with Public Enemy Number 1!?)
Well anyway talking to her can have a good or bad turnout. Just give her a chance!
(Oh btw is this Reese we're talking about?)
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 04:44 PM
Yes. Mr. Reese Cup.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 04:47 PM
Yes. Mr. Reese Cup.
I'll be in Ontario... :cool:
jack straw
November 24th, 2009, 05:08 PM
Sure, I'd suggest you talk with her. You said you are still friends with the guy who is being refered to as Public Enemy #1?
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 10:16 PM
Update. I talked to her. Turns out they'd had sex, and she was pregnant. She miscarried yesterday. Now I don't got a clue what to do.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 10:33 PM
Update. I talked to her. Turns out they'd had sex, and she was pregnant. She miscarried yesterday. Now I don't got a clue what to do.
HOLY SHIT! ...Sorry for my French.
:furious: Ok now I'm REALLY going to Ontario! That's so shocking it makes me angry! That guy can burn in hell! Forget the cup! That guy'll need a 20 foot deep steel wall! Ok don't panic, comfort her... I'm really concerned for her. I swear to God if that guy doesn't help her through this...God I'm just so sorry.
:( ......:mad:
Art_dude
November 24th, 2009, 10:55 PM
Update. I talked to her. Turns out they'd had sex, and she was pregnant. She miscarried yesterday. Now I don't got a clue what to do.
... Now there's something I didn't see coming 0_0
As terrible as this may sound, why is this of any relevance to you? If you broke up with him, why is his ex approaching you to tell you this? Is she asking for advice or is she simply spilling her personal life out to you? I'm just confused as to why she approached you. If I were you, I would gently break away from her. Comfort her and make it known that you're sorry for what happened to her, and that whats-his-face is a jerk, but that you don't want to get caught up in that drama. Trust me, pull out of this now, and you'll save yourself a hell of a lot of energy.
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 10:57 PM
Trust me. If he doesn't he won't be leaving the hospital for a long time and he sure as hell won't be having sex again.
I've pulled away it's just rather shocking.
Art_dude
November 24th, 2009, 11:01 PM
I'm sorry, you're gonna have to give me a little more info. "if he doesn't he won't be leaving the hospital for a long time" If he doesn't do what? I take it that both families now know and that he is at the hospital with her?
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:03 PM
Just be glad you got away when you could Becky! And yeah, comfort her...and I need a nail gun for Mr. Reese.
I'm sorry, you're gonna have to give me a little more info. "if he doesn't he won't be leaving the hospital for a long time" If he doesn't do what? I take it that both families now know and that he is at the hospital with her?
No, she means if he doesn't take care of her during this he won't be leaving the hospital for a long time.
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 11:06 PM
no. She is not in the hospital her parents only know that they had sex. Nothing else. The first bit was directed to mford1996. If he doesn't help her through this. Close family friends, is the real reason I know as much as I do.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:07 PM
no. She is not in the hospital her parents only know that they had sex. Nothing else. The first bit was directed to mford1996. If he doesn't help her through this. Close family friends, is the real reason I know as much as I do.
( I HAVE A NAME! )
Well anyway most of it is his fault from my perspective.
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 11:08 PM
It was consensual, she was very sure on that point.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:11 PM
It was consensual, she was very sure on that point.
Hm..alright but still I still think most of the blame can go onto Mr.NoDickAfterHeMetMarcus because he didn't protect her.
Art_dude
November 24th, 2009, 11:27 PM
ooooh My bad! sorry just needed some clarification :)
This guy sounds like a complete scumbag... Oh well. Not much else you can do!
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:36 PM
ooooh My bad! sorry just needed some clarification :)
This guy sounds like a complete scumbag... Oh well. Not much else you can do!
( Except kick his ballz off.... >.> )
Hm agreed, the only thing you can really do is help her through it until delivery....unless she decides to terminate it...can she do that?
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 11:37 PM
She miscarried yesterday.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:38 PM
She miscarried yesterday.
Yeah so?
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 11:39 PM
miscarried means lost the baby. She isn't pregnant anymore. That's what has her so upset.
Suicune
November 24th, 2009, 11:41 PM
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHhh *Facepalms self*
Crap..I'm stupid. Well that's like a thousand times Worse!
Quick_Sylver
November 24th, 2009, 11:45 PM
Exactly.
Suicune
November 25th, 2009, 12:06 AM
So like what is Reese :guillotine: Doing in this whole situation?
Quick_Sylver
November 25th, 2009, 12:10 AM
he's taking a parenting course and other than that I don't know.
Suicune
November 25th, 2009, 11:53 AM
Son of a bitch. Well hopefully the parenting course will straighten him out....or not.
jack straw
November 25th, 2009, 12:38 PM
Sorry its taken me so long to reply, Couldnt get to my computer for most of last night.
I kinda had a feeling that when She had asked to talk to you it was cuz this Piece of shit Screwed up, and she didnt know what to do. Marcus, i'm liking the idea of kicking the balls off of Mr. NoDickAfterHeMetMarcus, Scumbags like him dont deserve to have a Dick. Too bad this dude lives in onterio, otherwise I would go up an kick his ass too.
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