Is it OK to not feel good enough for your bf?

[Grinchilla]

Because I'm really not good enough... it makes me try harder to be the best I can, but I still don't think I can ever be good enough.
I feel so so lucky that he chose me.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

It's ok to feel like he's a great guy and that you're lucky to have him, and it's good that he makes you want to be a better person... but don't let yourself get too into the, "I'm not worthy," mindset.

Apparently you are good enough, because he chose to be your boyfriend; remember that. If you get too caught up in feeling inferior, and like he's too good for you, it's just going to cause problems in the relationship later on. I've seen a lot of couples break up because one of them felt the other was "too good for them", and it's silly. He's with you, and you're the one he's with. Thus, you're good enough for him.

[Grinchilla]

Would cybersex and sexting (no pics, just lewd text) with female friends be cheating? >_< heh
:( sometimes I do it with him................ I regret it now...
I don't see anything wrong with cheating... it doesn't hurt anyone... so I shouldnt' care... but I do... but I don't want to tell him to stop when I have no reason to give him.

:(

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

The cybering, if not cheating, is something I would expect a guy to stop doing once he has a girlfriend. The sexting.... how lewd is "lewd"? Just flirting you may have to deal with a little, but if it's beyond that then I would expect him to knock that off too.

Is this why you feel like you're maybe not good enough, because he's going to other girls for this kind of thing?
If he can't control himself enough to avoid cybering with his girl friends, then that's his problem and not your fault. Obviously it is hurting someone, because it's hurting you. Cheating is rarely something that the other partner can know about and not mind. It makes you feel like you can't trust them, like you're not enough for them, and just puts strain on the whole relationship.

The reason to give him for why he should stop is because it's hurting you. That should be enough. If it's not, then he's not the great guy you think he is, and you deserve someone who will treat you better.

[Sapphire]

Would cybersex and sexting (no pics, just lewd text) with female friends be cheating? >_< heh
:( sometimes I do it with him................ I regret it now...
I don't see anything wrong with cheating... it doesn't hurt anyone... so I shouldnt' care... but I do... but I don't want to tell him to stop when I have no reason to give him.

:(
If you are in a relationship with this guy then he shouldn't be doing that with other people anyway as it is a breach of your trust and (if I may be so bold) a demonstration of you not being all that special to him. If you were as special to him as he says you are, why does he not restrain himself in order to honour the special bond that a boyfriend and girlfriend share?

And why do you say you shouldn't care if he has cybersex and text sex (I assume that's what sexting is) with other girls?

Cheating does hurt the other person in the relationship - in this case it is hurting you.

[Bougainvillea]

Sexting is sending pictures.
(Nudies)

I would confront him about it.

[Sapphire]

Sexting is sending pictures.
(Nudies)

I would confront him about it.
But she said "sexting (no pics, just lewd text)"

Just googled it and it is what I know as text sex...just can't see why someone who is in a relationship with someone would do that to their girlfriend/boyfriend...

[Bougainvillea]

Okay, never mind then. :P

[Sammi13]

No way! He chose you because your you. If you are always trying to make yourself perfect, your gonna get really tired of it and go insane and not want to be with him anymore because you'll feel like you have to be perfect for him to love you.
Edit: If he's cheating via phone sex, it's still cheating. And you say it's not hurting anyone, but it is. It's hurting you. You need to tell him that and if he's not willing to stop, I would break up with him. He's not worth it if you can't be the only girl in his life wile you two are together.