bisexual

[There_Goes_My_Life]

Ok, I just found out recently that my boyfriend is bisexual. I told him I was ok with it, but in reality i'm not... I just DON'T understand why. I have been dating him for 3 1/2 months now and I really love him. This is the one i had trouble with before... but anyways, I loved him before i knew and i love him now... i just hate when he talks about it. It bugs me. I know this shouldn't be a problem. I just don't know what to do!

[R&b_Boy]

maybe u should find someone else... if ur not happy.. ya'll can still be friends.. u just dun want him to be bi.. and i understand dat. I know it;s a shame when u love aperson and u find out that that other person has a secret...

[There_Goes_My_Life]

I could never leave him... I love him, we've talked about marriage... our relationship is too deep to end b/c of him being bi... maybe what i didn't explain myself good enough... i just want to know how to deal with it... how can i get over this bothering me? I don't want him being bi stand in the way of our love...

[R&b_Boy]

maybe ya'll should both sit down and talk about the issue or go to counseling if u want (probably help ) but if want to talk to me more about it.. i have Aim or u can PM me.. I like to try and help people !!!

[Φρανκομβριτ]

have you told him it bothers you? I can't see how it would be a probelm unless he wanted to go out with another guy while hes with you

[There_Goes_My_Life]

Well he sort of knew it bothered me... My friend told him about what my aunt said "Love is not enough for bisexuals" and we talked then... he was afraid that i was going to break up with him b/c of him being bi... he told his friend he loves me and doesn't want to lose me... and when we talked he told me that love is enough for him... i never planned on breaking up with him so i told him that i was ok with him being bi... i guess it's something i'll have to get over...

[MoveAlong]

maybe ya'll should both sit down and talk about the issue or go to counseling if u want (probably help ) but if want to talk to me more about it.. i have Aim or u can PM me.. I like to try and help people !!!
I want to talk to her :(

Hey you know what, it's fine girl! I know how you feel, but I don't know how to say why you hate it...think of it this way, if you have a three-sum, then it's twice the man for you! :yes: It's ok, and I really think you should talk it out with him, as hard as that might seem. Now if I could only find the bighug smiley... ah well this one will have to do :hug3:
Add me to you messenger (if you have one) and we can talk more ;)

[redcar]

i defo agree with others when they say you need to sit down and talk to him about it. cause it must have been so hard for him to be able to say what he said, but it does show he cares about you because he was able to tell you.

but at the end of the day when you look at it he is still the same person, you just know a little bit more about him!:D

[kolte]

I'm a guy.
I'm bisexual.
I never cheated on anyone in any relationship ever.
you cant say that all bisexuals this.
or all gays that.
or all strights this
we are all individuals.
and if this guys says he loves you
and you love him back.
then it doesnt matter what he is behind the curtin.
it just matters that you are bound together with the most powerful emotion ever...love.
so who cares.
run with what makes you happy babe.

[Aηdy]

it must have taken him alot of courage to tell you that, and he must trust and love you enough to have told you that, so like everyone else has said just sit down and have a talk about it.. i have a friend who is bisexual, she never ever cheated on her boyfriend

[There_Goes_My_Life]

I'm a guy.
I'm bisexual.
I never cheated on anyone in any relationship ever.
you cant say that all bisexuals this.
or all gays that.
or all strights this
we are all individuals.
and if this guys says he loves you
and you love him back.
then it doesnt matter what he is behind the curtin.
it just matters that you are bound together with the most powerful emotion ever...love.
so who cares.
run with what makes you happy babe.



Wow, you don't realize how much better that makes everything... this is definately not sarcasm... thank you very much :)