am i gay

[victor]

My friend and i was in my room (a boy) he asked to see my penis i showed him then we started to masterbate esch other make out and have sex is this normal for my age i am 13 i want to know if i am gay

[R&b_Boy]

no ur not gay.. ur just curious.. it's a phase mostly all boys go thru it.. just don't make it a habbit once u come out of the stage.. then u'll have to ask ur self that question.. u feel what i mean? Just don;t judge ur self right now.. to many teens around ur age and my age 13 are doing this.. just wait, k. there are other forums like this.

[Just...Will]

Did you like it? Could you see yourself doing it again? And be more specific about "had sex".

[Bobby]

Ur probapply curious.

[BillyWitchDoctor.com]

yea, could you be a lil more specific on what you mean by if you had sex? nobody is really ready at your age to declare themselves gay because the mind is developing so much right now and people get really confused. i can see you being curious by masturbating w/ him since lots of teens do that but making out with him and then as you say "having sex" are a lil extreme.there's nothing wrong with it but you have to think if you liked it, if you'd rather do this than what you think it would be like with a woman, etc. but dont label yourself yet, since so many things could happen even within this year for you

[TeenInNeed]

ill try and be the first not being like a record player... Yes like everyone said it could be a phase and its probably your hormones, i've always thought about wanting to masturbate with a friend i mean more of experimental to see if i prefer being with guys because i like women and i get erect from seeing a penis too. It's mostly hormones so ill agree dont label yourself because its always a bad thing to label ones self... labels can be bad if anything because they can hurt ones feelings. So dont tell any of your friends your gay because the gossip spreads and after puberty you would have gone through all that emotional stress from your peers. So keep it to yourself in the real world because when puberty ends you may not seem to like being with guys before or your might still like it so please spare yourself emotional stress but you probably arent gay

[MoveAlong]

If you like the same sex and are not attracted to the oppisite sex at all, then you're gay. I mean, I am gay, and I can tell a ugly woman from a pretty woman, but I'm not turned on by them. I think men are built better. It is most likely from what you have told us that you are not gay. Could you give us a bit more info?
Additional questions:
Is this your first sexual expirience?
Was there passion?
Did you like it more than straight sex? (If you had have heterosexual sex before)
Do you think you're gay?
Have you found boys to be more "intresting" than girls? :mrgreen:

~Zack

[R&b_Boy]

what is this, like the 100th time someone posted a forum like dis

[MoveAlong]

what is this, like the 100th time someone posted a forum like dis
habook3 didn't lock it...so it's fine. I trust him.

[Fruitloop0111]

yeah TRUST HABOOK3,

but i do feel like a broken CD: UR ONLY GAY IF U SEE URSELF SETELING DOWN WITH A MAN...

p.s. how was it??? ive wondered for a wile

[MoveAlong]

*Sigh*
I don't think that you are ONLY gay if you can see yourself settling down the same sex.

The thing is:
Your soul mate could be of either gender. Being gay is being ATTRACTED to the same sex. We march for rights to get married. Since we are ATTRACTED to the same sex, then we WANT that gender. So we naturally get more closer to them. Think about this:
You are a heterosexual man.
DO YOU:
A) Try to find a man to love even though you think they're not attractive,

or

B) Try to find a woman to love because you think women are hot?
Vice-versa for girls.
I hope everybody understands now.



I finally got that out...

[There_Goes_My_Life]

Ok, ur 13...u had one gay experience... ur too young to really have any sexual experience... but they're gettin younger and younger these dayz... ANYWAYS... you can't decide that you're gay at such a young age, keep your options open... that's all i'm sayin.

[Just...Will]

Since it's his first post, we're supposed to let it go. If a more experienced member posted this, I'd lock it.

[redcar]

what is this, like the 100th time someone posted a forum like dis
probably is, but i think its great. looking back over what someone else has said is all well and good but it doesnt beat the personal touch you get when someone is answering what you ask personally.

and i think esspecially with this topic thats what you need. your sexuality is one of the most confusing things and even if so many people make repeat threads on it, if it helps them by asking then its fine, regardless if they are a new member or not.

[kolte]

your 13 years old.
you have an entire life in front of you.
what if you label yourself right now today.
and then at 20 you reolize you arent gay.
that this was just a wild experiment.
and you have told everyone your gay.
that would be pretty akward.

sexuality is about love and connection *i have said this so many times now*
have you ever been in love?
if you have then you know the feeling.
loveing, and having crushes etc.
have you ever had a crush on a guy?
have you ever fallen in love with a guy?


think about what sexuailty really is.
what it really means to be gay.
is it all for the sex?
is there love involved?

let me help you.
that relationship, that connection, that love and lust you may have felt for a girl.
if you can feel that same for a guy, then you allready have your answer.

[mike1]

ur just curious

[Melchi0r]

Sorry Victor but you might not know if you're gay or not for a while. Don't worry, other guys have done stuff like that and turned out to be straight in the long run. (Not like it's bad to be gay)

[MiCamaEsSuCama99]

being gay deosnt have anything to do with sexual experiences, would you rather spend the rest of your life with a man or a woman, if youd rather be with a man, then your probobly gay, sry

[TeenInNeed]

people are trying to help maybe you should try replying back it just seems a little rude to me but thats me this does seem like spam but please reply to our comments because we'd like to further help.

[MoveAlong]

people are trying to help maybe you should try replying back it just seems a little rude to me but thats me this does seem like spam but please reply to our comments because we'd like to further help.
No, it's not spam.
His first post was yesterday, his first post went in this thread, and his last activity was yesterday. Please give it a week or so to give the other person a chance to respond. They could be piled up with homework or something.

Also, could I ask some people to use punctuation (, . : ; ' ") in their posts? Sometimes it's a bit hard to read it. At least use triple dots and go from there. Yours was understandable but I would like to say that to some new members.

Lastly, *cough koler you make it hard to argue with you you just seem so stuck up cough*

~Zack :D heh

[TeenInNeed]

No, it's not spam.
His first post was yesterday, his first post went in this thread, and his last activity was yesterday. Please give it a week or so to give the other person a chance to respond. They could be piled up with homework or something.

Also, could I ask some people to use punctuation (, . : ; ' ") in their posts? Sometimes it's a bit hard to read it. At least use triple dots and go from there. Yours was understandable but I would like to say that to some new members.

Lastly, *cough koler you make it hard to argue with you you just seem so stuck up cough*

~Zack :D heh
trust me man read any of my other posts... i use punctuation. Quite a bit, I also use caps when necessary. i'm like a new experienced member or somethin lol

[MoveAlong]

Oh yes I saw some of your posts. Thx for punctuation lol
Yours was understandable but I would like to say that to some new members.

[TeenInNeed]

yeh i kno like i said im like the experienced new member

[JunkBondTrader]

Don't worry about it man! My first kiss was with a guy and I'm not gay (it was actually part of a stupid bet (not a dare) but I have to admit I was curious). I know you've probably heard this a million times but only you can decide weather or not you're gay. But yeah, you're probably just curious.

[SUpErFly]

As a teen, yea you are probably just curious. Just do wat I do and if your confused, just go for it; if you wanna kissa guy or a girl ect..., do it, then you can see if your 'gay' or not by deciding if you were attracted to Girls beter than Guys or vise versa
It'll probably help alot, or not at all, you just dnt know until you try