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Kinetic
November 22nd, 2009, 09:26 PM
ok so in the past ive had sex with a few friends and everything was all good BUT after getting erections and all by myself is kinda difficult.

i like.. can't get turned on anymore as i jack off.. except in wet dreams or when i wake up.

a couple weeks ago i jacked off and all i did was pre cum and then it went soft like after 2 minutes.

did having sex to early mess me up? because i havn't done it in a long time this is kinda embarassing but am i doing it rong or something?

i can get erections from other stuff but i just cant do it bymyself...

twotall
November 22nd, 2009, 09:31 PM
no it shouldnt have of change anything but mybe you like sex better and urself isnt hitting that spot like sex did

Kaleidoscope Eyes
November 22nd, 2009, 09:31 PM
It's possible that having sex has just made masturbating by yourself seem less exciting in comparison. Sex can't physically mess up masturbation like that, so it's most likely a mental thing. You're just having trouble being turned on when you're by yourself, now that you've experienced doing more things with other people. It won't be like that forever, necessarily, you just have to figure out how to turn yourself on when you're by yourself, see what works for you.

Sceneboy612
November 22nd, 2009, 10:07 PM
There is no way that having sex that early messed anything up. If there is alot of things going on in your life that are on your mind, that could be a reason of why you cant... continue.

BigBulge
November 23rd, 2009, 03:58 PM
No, it will not change he stimulation masturbation gives you, but maybe now your body's got the full picture, it wants that sort of feeling every time. If you don't have sex for a while, your body will grow to accept the feeble stimulation your hand gives you again and you should be able to JO.

Suicune
November 23rd, 2009, 04:56 PM
No, sex can't mess up masturbation. It's just after sex things other things seem un-stimulating. Don't worry, it won't be like this for too long.