Why don't guys like me?

[ToastBandito]

I don't understand why it is that guys don't like me. It's not like I'm ugly (everyone has thier flaws) or really mean. In fact, I try to be nice to everyone. :) I'm not chubby and I don't mind kids. I'm modest and aren't clingy. Ya I can be grumpy or teasing at moments at I'm not like that often. I also like video games and almost all types of music. Is it that I don't flawnt myself everywhere and flash my boobs or are mean to almost everyone? :confused: Can anyone tell me why guys don't like me that much or what i can do to make myself more appealing to guys?:confused:

[fohawk]

wow well you sound fine to me and guys are missing out you sound like you have a good personality and dont let your confidence drop just cuz guys wont go out with you

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

P101 :arrow: Relationships & Dating

[cherry_boi]

lol idk u sound nice to me.....perhaps the guys u hang around with r dumb...or gay >.<

[Kahn]

Do you take chances to ask someone out? Do you flirt with them? Thats what I like. And you sound like someone I would love to have as a girlfriend lol.

[Alfred Pennyworth]

I understand what you feel. I'm pretty average, and most of the time, girls act like I don't exist. But I can't think of a single reason why any guy in his right mind wouldn't like a cool person like you.

[Sage]

I don't understand why it is that guys don't like me. It's not like I'm ugly (everyone has thier flaws) or really mean. In fact, I try to be nice to everyone. :) I'm not chubby and I don't mind kids. I'm modest and aren't clingy. Ya I can be grumpy or teasing at moments at I'm not like that often. I also like video games and almost all types of music. Is it that I don't flawnt myself everywhere and flash my boobs or are mean to almost everyone? :confused: Can anyone tell me why guys don't like me that much or what i can do to make myself more appealing to guys?:confused:

Hot damn, you like videogames? That's a selling point for a lot of guys. And don't flaunt your breasts, chica, that just attracts the wrong kinda guys. Guys where you live are likely just too dull (minded) to appreciate you. But you don't need to be with anyone to be happy anyway. Enjoy the life you have and don't stress over finding somebody. It'll happen when it happens.

If it makes you feel better- I'm the most brilliant chap at my school, I dress well, have a good sense of humor, can bring a smile to people's faces and I don't look half bad. And guess what? I've never been considered by anybody!

/narcissism

Be beautiful. Don't be attractive. Think on that.

[Suicune]

I'm sure guys do like you! Things don't happen overnight! Just hang still!

[Natoja12]

to me you sound like one of those kids who only hang out with girls but like to tk about boyss. iunno u gave me that picture of those kind of ppl.

[ToastBandito]

to me you sound like one of those kids who only hang out with girls but like to tk about boyss. iunno u gave me that picture of those kind of ppl.

Well actually I have a lot of guy friends! ^.^''
Lol, that doesn't mean I'm not a girl and have a lot f girl friends too! I try to be nice to absolutly everyone.

[Natoja12]

Well actually I have a lot of guy friends! ^.^''
Lol, that doesn't mean I'm not a girl and have a lot f girl friends too! I try to be nice to absolutly everyone.

thats the thing. ppl who r nice to everyone rn't overly popular. not to say u arn't with ur friends but i mean in general

one way to get boys attention without being to slutty. is to make a facebook account. add them all. put fun and cute photos on that make u look attractive and outgoing. be sure to tk to the guys on there and change ur profile pic a lot for attention

[Sage]

one way to get boys attention without being to slutty. is to make a facebook account. add them all. put fun and cute photos on that make u look attractive and outgoing. be sure to tk to the guys on there and change ur profile pic a lot for attention

Can we get a bad advice filter for this forum?

[Natoja12]

its not even bad she wants guys to like her. im not telling her to strip for them im saying pput fun and pretty picutres up of her and her friend. guys like that

[2D]

Can we get a bad advice filter for this forum?

If the stupid filter was in operation it would have dealt with that.

But seriously, you don't have anything to worry about. Guys where you live (Like Deschain said) must be dull and focused on some weird stuff not to be after you. I am in the same boat with you though. It's annoying until you realize that it's a rather minor thing to fret about.

[Sage]

its not even bad she wants guys to like her.

And that's the problem. People shouldn't have to be convinced into liking you. If someone was meant to be with you, they wouldn't care how many hours you spend doing your hair in the morning and flaunting yourself on facebook.

im not telling her to strip for them im saying pput fun and pretty picutres up of her and her friend. guys like that

I don't. If I see a girl with like a hundred (or more) pictures of herself on the internet, even if they're not provocative at all, I just sort of naturally assume she wants attention.

[OneManArmy]

someone might like you secretly, but of possible embarrassment they don't admit it. And don't start flaunting yourself, as said previously it attracts the wrong guys who u will defiantly not like. Just be yourself, you'll find someone someday, it just takes time.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Okay. From the sound of it, and I don't mean to be harsh, you sound plain, regular, a sheep in a herd.

It's one thing to have all the traits that are attractive to the opposite sex, you gotta take advantage of them.
blending in isn't exactly likable.
You gotta stand out, and no I don't mean stick your boobs out. I mean personality.
You gotta let your personality flourish, passive isn't very outstanding.
other way to put it, passive isn't passionate.
being passionate means putting effort, want. It's to have drive.

Everyone has an edge to their personality, and if you don't exploit that, and just blend in with everyone else, you won't be noticed easily.

I hope you understand that.

[hugslut]

Maybe you are too busy being nice to everyone that you don't focus enough on any guys...people usually get to know someone before they start liking them. You seem like you're the kind of person that people see more as a friend rather then gf.

[enzenzz]

You sound plain and seems like you're one of the guys. You need to stand out a bit or make your intentions known.

[The Boy Genius]

sigh this is like me i try to be different i try to be me, i just get told to fuck off
or my hummor goes straight over there heads, also i suck at using commas

[Sammi13]

Mabey your too shy. They might feel like you would reject them if they tried to ask you out. Try flirting a little with a guy you like. Just a little bit though. You don't need any serious miny skirt, make-up caked face and low cut shirt to get a guy to look at you. Just catch their interest with something they like. Mabey a band on his shirt or a book he's reading that doesn't look like something the teacher is making him read or anything else he talks about. There's tons of stuff to start a convo with.

[Kale]

\Is it that I don't flawnt myself everywhere and flash my boobs or are mean to almost everyone? \

bingo, you hit the jackpot.

[Shogun]

Hey umm... I think we should hang out sometime ;) lol, ok sorry. I'm not sure, you sound awesome, maybe you just need to stand out more like they said but... Idk, I'd date you nonetheless lol

[ToastBandito]

Hey, thanks everyone for the advice! :D I did use alot of it, like being a little more outgoing and showing my quirky (not plain) side. :)

[xEZx]

I bet that a lot of guys like you but don't know how to show it or afraid to admit it. Trust me.