Keep fucking up...

[Underground_Network]

So I used to suck at even getting near a girl let alone getting into a relationship with one, but lately I've been a lot more social than I used to be and several times I've fallen in love and tried to turn it into a relationship, but every time I do I fuck up...

In most cases, the girls see me like a really great friend, nothing more...

In two other cases, one of which was really recently, the girl I fell for had just gotten out of a relationship and didn't want a new one just yet (in both cases the girls said their hearts were broken and they weren't ready for another relationship, etc., etc.).

In two OTHER cases, it turned out the girl I was falling for was already in a relationship (and now one of those girls won't even talk to me because I fell head over heels for her while she was dating another guy... And now she's single and won't even be my friend...).

But yeah, it seems like things just never work out for me... I really just want a girl I can hold close and honestly just love (and have love me back), but either I keep fucking up or they're not 'ready' for a relationship, etc... How hard is it to find someone who will love you back? At this point, it seems impossible... :/

[Cybertone]

Dude I totally feel you. But from what I can read from you post, you're well able to come clean about your feelings to these girls. I think you should be proud of that. I've only done it once and I was like thirteen at the time. Bad communication skills is holding me down big time, and I've probably missed out on a bit because I wasn't able to just put the cards on the table (or at least discretely flash them haha). Also you seem to have a good healthy view on love. Keep your head up dude! Love is like the hardest thing in the universe ever, and all we can really do is to try to learn from our screw ups.

[laurita_21]

well. youll get your chance someday to find the perfect girl :)
its just not your thing right now :)

[MacMilker]

people always ask me out but before you fall in love figure out your relationship status with you and your lady friend

[Art_dude]

I totally feel you: honestly your post spoke to me because it is the story of my life T_T You're not doing anything wrong on your part - like Benjamin said, you seem to have a healthy view on love. You also have good communication skills and girls seem to like you. That seems to be your problem ironically enough. Girls now a days want guys to treat them like shit, and hide any emotional maturity they have. Whence the 'friend card' you get. I'm not suggesting you become some womanizing jerk, but that is at least an explanation for why you haven't been having the best of luck. My suggestion? Keep doing what you're doing. You're a nice guy, and eventually someone will come along and see that :)

[fohawk]

art dude is correct i am the same way i am there friend and in the end it will eventually pay off and you will find your dream girl just dont let hopelessness catch up to you