I really need someone

[MacMilker]

Basically everyone i know has a bf or gf except me. Today i was thinking how much i need someone to cuddle and say i love you and kiss till the sun sets, and then rises, and i basically went nuts and started balling my eyes out. I am in desperate need of someone. a soul mate, someone to comfort me to the best of their abilities...but i have no one. every attractive/ sweet guy i meet has a bf or a gf. i fall in love with someone and figure they are not single. I posted this horrible feeling because i just need someone to talk about it with.

I understand this is horribly selfish and self centered and i know people out there who are single probably are thinking i dont understand how they feel, but i do. im not a self centered person...i just want to have someone to hold, and be held.

anyways thanks for listening love always to my VT friends :wub:<3 <3 <3:wub:




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[drewlink99]

Hey!
Yea, I feel the same way, EXACTLY! And everybody I know has someone too... It sucks.
But, I know that if I wait, I'll find someone just right, and so will you!
I know the feeling of loneliness, and how you want someone to hold you, it would be nice to be held... But, it will all work out, and besides, your young, you have the rest of your life to find someone. Like, I know it is going to seem like forever, but I'm waiting until I'm at least 25 years old to find someone. That way there is no drama with my family, and them. You know?
You can get through it, I know you can!

[MacMilker]

thanks :]

[Bougainvillea]

I can't really say I know how you feel...bacause I don't. But I'm sure you'll find someone. And you need not worry. You're only fourteen, you have quite a while to go. ;)

[MacMilker]

thanks lawrence :D

[Appleton]

Chris - I care so much about you man. You really are like my little brother. Don't worry about this ok? I know it's easy for me to say this but listen, when you least expect it, it's gonna happen. Don't be in such a hurry bro. You want it so bad but I don't want you rushing into anything. It will come, you're to great a guy for someone to not snatch you up. You know I'm here if you need me. I love ya bro.

[MacMilker]

chris i love you so much, made me cry...thanks for always being there <3

[The Batman]

I had to learn the hard way that sometimes being alone is the best thing. I know exactly what you're feeling because i feel it constantly but you just have to learn that the only thing that feels bad about being lonely is thinking you need someone to be happy. The truth is happiness is a choice and it's up to you not your partner.

[Billy15]

i dont know anything lol but i have to agree with kyle. i dont think anyone wants to be alone but i dont think happiness is found in other people i think it has to come from within yourself. im not saying though that having someone to love wouldnt make it nicer.

[tyler27846]

i know exactly how you feel i thought i would never find someone but theni just did just wait and see someone eventually will come along

[XxHaViiK]

Yeah, I know how you feel. I've been trying to find someone for quite a while. I've looked for guys and girls, and they always end up being with someone else. I just tell myself that I will find someone eventually.

[Kahn]

I always end up going out with a Skater girl... which honestly I can't stand. It's because I don't talk much I guess, and because of my long hair people tend to think I am a skater, even though I say "No I have and probably never will try".

Don't rush, get someone you truly love. It will be worth it.

[Truth]

Don't try to validate yourself by being in relationships like other people, wait for the one person you love.

[meygan]

when you find the right person, you'll be in a relationship . Don't just get with someone for the sake of feeling less alone because it just wont work. Have patience and you'll find love <3

[laurita_21]

i feel the same thing..! like i need someone. but don't get into a relationship just because everyone else has gf's. besides your only 14 soo thees noo rush :) just wait untill the right person comes along :P

[1_21Guns]

I know exactly how you feel, although not everyone I know has a bf/gf, a fair few do. You'll find somebody, you're only 14. I'm 15 on monday, and i've NEVER had a boyfriend. I just understand that the area I live in hasn't got the type of people I like in it. (well it is full of chavs...) apart from my friends boyfriends, who are remotely normal. Anyway, truth is love doesn't come when you start chasing it. Racing to get around corners before they hit you with surprises won't get you anywhere. Love comes when you least expect it, just slow down, and stop looking so much. One day, it will happen.

[overcome.]

People often desire what they cannot have or don't have - other people included. Just because 'everyone' else has somebody doesn't mean that it's essential to survive and you need a partner. From experience, these things happen when you least expect them to :)

[MacMilker]

yeah well my girlfriend recently dumped me and im lonely again, thanks though guys i appreciate all of this

[tyler27846]

yeah well my girlfriend recently dumped me and im lonely again, thanks though guys i appreciate all of this


im sorry dude i know how you feel pm me if you need to talk

[overcome.]

im sorry dude i know how you feel pm me if you need to talk

x2. These things can really affect you, especially if it's a first love. Regardless, without being tacky and cliche what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. Remember that these experiences are learning experiences, these things can teach you about love, relationships and how to deal with companions for the future. You'll be ok, I know it's no concellation though, so hang in there. Keep your friends close, they can help you through these hard times.