a question

[jdilly]

hi, i am pretty sure i am not gay but whenever i use the public showers at the pool i always seem to catch at least one guy staring at my penis ( its about 7 in if that really matters) ... the thing is they are all usually older than me and on the occasion that i have glanced at them I was larger then them...i guess its just the idea of either a guy or girl liking to look at me turns me on ... does anyone think this makes me bi?

[Commander Thor]

Not at all man.
At your age, it's perfectly normal to be curious about another mans penis.
And regarding the 'turning you on' part, that's natural as well, right now you're sex drive is concerned about one thing, sex. As long as it has to do with sex, you'll probably be turned on by it. Later on in your 20s when your sex drive cools off a bit, you'll see a penis just as any other organ.

Also, as a side note. To be bi you must like both guys & girls in both a sexual AND emotional manner. Meaning, just because you're turned on by a guy doesn't mean squat about your sexuality.

[jdilly]

hmmm never thought of it that way... thx alot man!

[MisterMonster]

No. It does not make you bi. However wonderfully well endowed you or those people at your pool are, looking at them does not make you bisexual.

[thisqboy4u]

Hey, at 17, you are probably a pretty good looking guy to them; and if you are 7 inches flaccid in the shower, they're probably jealous. And for you, who doesn't feel admired being looked at. I do.

[beedubs]

you cant really ask if your bi, thats something you need to handle on your own. but usually in locker rooms youll find one person looking. i see people do it all the time. people are just curious. i dont let it bother me. its a natural thing

[Severus Snape]

Other people staring at you is no reflection of your sexual preference