so do i or don't i?

[Gumleaf]

so i have a girlfriend right, who lives nearby and i go to school with and spend a lot of time with. joanne is not only my gf, but best friend too. then there is another girl, tiffany, who is probably my second best friend. so this is the situation. tonight tiffany asked me if i wanted to go to her yr10 formal with her just as friends. i said i would have to talk to joanne about it before giving her an answer. just another thing though, last january she showed interest that she liked me as more then a friend, and since then joanne has been a bit edgy towards tiff, even though they were friends before that. so basically my question is, what should i do? should i talk to jo and ask how she feels about it? or should i just give a straight no to tiffy? its not like anything is going to happen, we would only be going as friends. but i don't want jo feeling uncomfortable about it. i'm a bit confused?

[Bougainvillea]

Yeah, but then again, it's her right as your girlfriend to know. If you two have a strong relationship, then you should have nothing to worry about.

I say you should ask.

[Sapphire]

:confused:

Why wouldn't you want to go to the formal with your girlfriend?

[Giles]

I say you should talk to your girlfriend, explain that your only going as friends. If she has a problem with it, then just don't go with the other girl.

[laurita_21]

ask her since she's youre gf n all.

[Gumleaf]

:confused:

Why wouldn't you want to go to the formal with your girlfriend?

well i already am going to our formal with joanne. but thats not the question.

[Maverick]

I wouldn't do it. I don't think its worth the unindented consequences that may happen with it.

If you do go with it though, just make sure you would be OK with her going to a formal with another guy as friends.

[The Joker]

I would say no, don't go with her. If Tiffany showed interest before, Joanne might be upset and think she's trying to take you away.

[Gumleaf]

well i took the plunge and brought it up with mojo. i told her that i didn't say no straight away because i wanted to talk to her about it first. her response was "i'm not going to stop you from going, but i want you to know that it would make me feel very uncomfortable" and i was like "ok, well i'm not doing it then". then i got a kiss on the cheek and a final comment "good answer, and next time you say no straight away ok".