The Happily Single thread.

[Sage]

If you are happy and single, this is the thread for you. If you are taken, fuck off. If you are unhappy, fuck off. :3

The majority of us here are in highschool, so I'm just going to throw my two cents out there: Highschool relationships are bullshit. People are all too immature and they (more often than not) end up being drama fests. People making out in the hallways is annoying as all hell and most couples at this age aren't getting laid (although that could vary based on where you live).

For now, I am happily single. I enjoy the freedom of not having to work to appease anybody. I can watch porn as much as I please and as I sleep at night, my fantasies are not limited to but one person. I recognize that there are simply no people in my area who I feel are right for me, and I feel as though I don't even need to like anybody at my age. I'm holding off until University- Not as some stupid endurance test, but simply out of reason. University is, partly, about meeting new people and expanding your horizons. People are adults, more mature than mere children, and the majority of people there want to be there.

If any of you have similar feelings and/or want to share your own thoughts on being happily single, go ahead.

Again, if you want to talk about how relationships are better than being single, or bitch about your lover, or whine about how you aren't getting any, fuck off. There are countless other threads for that.

[overcome.]

I feel a very similar way. I don't believe I've found somebody that I think I'd be suited with. I can put my priorities in order without having to dedicate a certain amount of time with a partner. That makes me happy, you can put yourself first. It's not selfish, it's self love. All of these things you can't enjoy (as much) in a relationship. Pros and cons for everything, but I do agree with you, even if you think my posts aren't very good ;)

[2D]

Single is the best thing since sliced bread. I can actually do stuff for me and do it in peace. And the best part; I can watch a movie from start to finish and know what it was about! I too think that high school relationships are a load of crap. I'm in college now but still too young (16) for anything serious. Focusing on my studies is all I can manage nowadays.

[theOperaGhost]

High school relationships are bullshit. Tim...you are great! I agree with every part of your post!

People going out in high school don't "love" each other...don't be idiots people!

[Art_dude]

yes, the majority of high school relationships are bullshit. Ya don't need to be Freud to figure that one out. However, it is through mindless drama fests that we learn to interact with others. It may not be a meaningful relationship, but then again it isn't meant to be. High school dating is part of learning the basics of a relationship, and being with someone. Yea, it involves drama from oftentimes less evolved drama queens, but that's part of life. If you honestly think that university will be better, than you're kidding yourself. Stupid people are everywhere - you can't escape them. (unfortunately) ;) If anything, the incessant drinking will only exacerbate the immaturity. Just saying. But I get the drift of what you're trying to say.

[drumir93]

If you are happy and single, this is the thread for you. If you are taken, fuck off. If you are unhappy, fuck off. :3

The majority of us here are in highschool, so I'm just going to throw my two cents out there: Highschool relationships are bullshit. People are all too immature and they (more often than not) end up being drama fests. People making out in the hallways is annoying as all hell and most couples at this age aren't getting laid (although that could vary based on where you live).

For now, I am happily single. I enjoy the freedom of not having to work to appease anybody. I can watch porn as much as I please and as I sleep at night, my fantasies are not limited to but one person. I recognize that there are simply no people in my area who I feel are right for me, and I feel as though I don't even need to like anybody at my age. I'm holding off until University- Not as some stupid endurance test, but simply out of reason. University is, partly, about meeting new people and expanding your horizons. People are adults, more mature than mere children, and the majority of people there want to be there.

If any of you have similar feelings and/or want to share your own thoughts on being happily single, go ahead.

Again, if you want to talk about how relationships are better than being single, or bitch about your lover, or whine about how you aren't getting any, fuck off. There are countless other threads for that.

Oh My God, It's me with a vagina! (unless your actually a guy, I honestly can't tell)
I've been saying this for at least four years now. I think part of it is that I'm just not as horny as the average teenager though:rolleyes:. I don't need that assurance from someone else that I'm worth having around.
Also, all the girls in my area are stupid whores.:yes:

[Suicune]

I agree High school relationships are just a load of crap. (Even if I'm not his high school yet.) But middle school ones are just as bad.`

I'm fine being single, has it's ups and downs but I'm ok with it. But if I find somebody, that's fine too.

[Camazotz]

In general, yes Tim, I completely agree with you. But to say all high-school relationships are bullshit is not always the case. My parents were high-school sweethearts, and they're happily married today. Of course this is due to more commitment after high-school also, but some relationships do last, as rare as it is.

[Triceratops]

I was 11 years old since I had my last "boyfriend" and we only lasted for about a week, lawl.

I am currently 16 years old and in that whole space of time I've just been way too dorky for a boyfriend, so it seems. xP

I prefer being single - I don't plan on looking for anyone either.
Apparently I'm too independant for my own good anyways...

[Giles]

Me!
I'm single, have been for ages.
I'm Happy!
*waves"

[Aspiringanonymous]

Damn, officially best thread I've seen on the forum thus far.

People making out in the hallways is annoying as hell. People whining about their unrequited, current, and ex-lovers is annoying as hell. I personally have struggled with the education system a great deal, but even so, whatever the fuck happened to academics? Earning at least a half-decent grade to get into a university, period? Whatever happened to reading, learning, spending quality time enriching the mind and spirit while one still has the time and comfort to do so with financial support from parents? What about genuine, fraternal friendships, the bonds formed early in life that will endure for decades to come?

What happened to the things that really mattered? That were built on substance and quality rather than unstable passion and desire?

I'm sorry, call me insensitive if you will, but I have immense difficulty with the people who absolutely need a romantic relationship to sustain their already low self-esteem. Most of the time I just have an irresistible urge to shake such persons hard and force them to come to their senses. It's an extremely dangerous and foolish trap to fall into, especially as a developing young person. Don't get me wrong, I was there once. It almost killed me.

Rationally, I have never understood why romantic and sexual love is valued in society at all. When I was in grade school, I remember hearing love songs played on the radio and calling it 'a waste of ears'. I remember repeatedly urging my parents, who fought often, to get a divorce, because 'why would you waste time, when you could be much happier?' I didn't know why I said and felt those things at that time. They were quite innate and instinctive.

Single and not available. Couldn't be happier.

[overcome.]

To the post above without quoting it all - the amount of people who are like "I'm single and I hate it", "hate being single" bla bla. What idiots, you don't 'need' somebody to provide happiness for yourself. It's cringey.

[Nelson]

I love being single.. ive only had 2 high school relationships and they both lasted less than a week... FAIL... but its so much better in my case to be single... nobody can spead rumors about you and someone else LOL

[OneManArmy]

I agree, I couldn't care less that I pretty much never had a girl friend in my entire life. And the fact is I'm to lazy to even try. Wanna enjoy the time I have doing whatever I want, when I want with out someone bitching to me. And yes relationships now are stupid, it doesn't go anywhere.