What shall I do??

[woody92]

:confused::confused:What shall I do?? coz i have a gf but i think i am missing something.
I am atracted to boys but i have never done anythin' but now i am 17 i want more than just with a girl but how do i not hert my gf? is there a way i can have both?? and do you think it is a good idea??:confused::confused::confused:

[Giles]

A way to have "both", I take it you mean both genders...
Be bisexual.
There isn't really a way to tell your gf that you like guys without hurting her. I would just tell her nice and clearly that you think you might be interested in both guys and girls (bi, obviously)

[dantheman5000]

sometimes you waont know until you have relations with the opposite sex. pm if ne questions

[Helicopter Eyes]

Well, I'm a bi guy myself. I used to be straight but during puberty I started to notice guys the same ways as girls (well not the same but yeah). The only drawback is that a lot of people don't think that bi people exist, that people are either straight or gay. So, if somethings missing, I would say wait until the right time comes you'll get an opportunity especially in college, it's pretty cool, but be careful who you tell and how you go about it.

[nick]

I'm bi myself. My view is that you can have both but not at the same time. Its no different to being straight in that respect. If you're in a relationship with someone you owe it to them not to cheat and mess around with anyone else.

[kenshin8106]

its completely ur choice, if u feel ur bi then ur bi, sumtimes its hard to be able to tell, ur still in puberty, give it time

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Boys' Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

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I'm not sure what you're asking. Everyone seems to be giving answers on how to tell her about it, but you mention "having both." If you want a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time, forget it. Some people seem to think that if you like both sexes, you can have one of each. Say a bi woman marries a man, some people think it should be ok for her to have a girlfriend on the side if he knows about it, but it's just not good for a healthy relationship. Just because you like boys too, doesn't mean you can be with a boy while you have a girlfriend. You still have to avoid cheating on her.

You're 17, you'll have time to have other partners in the future, some may be boys. You can talk to your girlfriend about your feelings and how you feel attracted to boys if you like, but you can't "have both" in the sense of having relationships with both at the same time.