using me to boost his self esteem?

[piggy-wiggy]

well, i really dont know where to out this, but here goes,
[move if needed..] :whoops:

so theres this guy, lets call him B.. and i like B, B knows i lyk him.. Bgets very cocky around me because he knows..

ive lyked him for nearly a year..
since i got his number back in March i think it was, we've txted everyday i'd say, ALL day..
we even fall asleep on the fone together..
on my birthday, he was the one making me feel better when everyone forgot, wen i was down throughout the summer, he was the one who made me smile, nobody else..
but for the past month or so , we've barly talked, just keep senfing smilies etc.. and usually im the one who has to txt first..
up until last sunday, i'd say he was basically my best friend, and thats saying something [me and my friend are like sisters]..
last week, my friend A txted him off my fone, i thought little of it, until he got mad, so i took the fone off her, he said never to let it happen again, i said 'okay sorry' ..
sorry is the one thing with him, i say it to him, and everything goes away, all the problems, everything..
but my friends think i let him walk all over me..
and recently im starting to believe them..
as last sunday, A txt him again, off my fone, and he replied
'what did i tell you?'
i was starting to feel very controlled after a said sorry, and ive completly stopped talking to him..
even though i c him every day at school, he acts as though we never even spoke before.
he hasnt said a word to me since then.. im waiting to c if he ever will, but its killing me..
but the more i think about it, the more times i can remember everyone telling me how much of an ass he is..
~he called my friend L [girl] a slut..
~and we have had two major fights , both times i said sorry.. one of the fights left him not talking to two of my friends who tried to stand up for me.. he told them it was none of their buisness, then turned on me even more...

im so torn..
but im trying to stick to my guns on this..
does anyone think im doing the right thing? or that i should ignore my friends and do what used to make my happy.. ?

sorry bout the LONG rant.. just wondering if anyone could help me...=/

[Contra]

From what you wrote, I think he's being an ass and trying to control you. Besides, like you said, he feels cocky because you like him, so I think he's using that to take advantage of you.
So, in my opinion, you should listen to your friends, before you get more hurt than you are now.
Good luck! :)

[piggy-wiggy]

yeah, thanks, i guess i already knew it, just needed to hear it from someone else..

[Contra]

yeah, thanks, i guess i already knew it, just needed to hear it from someone else..

Sure, I understand. :)
Anytime!

[Darkness]

John is right, He's an ass (The guy that is! not John!), But remember you should stick to your guns... but don't blow his head off- stay cool towards him but don't make a scene or do anything petty towards him, it's easy to do but you'll come off looking worse than him if you sink to his level.

[piggy-wiggy]

thanks Feren.. im gona try my hardest.. :)

[alex95]

ever thought about what they said to him?

[cherry_boi]

sounds like a jerk, i'd say u can do better

learn to have some confidence and talk through and issue rather then just apologising tho

or u'll find urself in a repeat situation :/

[Kale]

lol, it's called "the game", read up on it. if you allow them to play the game, you're going to lose.

you're the player, not the game. learn it, live it, love it, because it's how you're going to get through relationship boot-camp and beyond. :P

[piggy-wiggy]

ever thought about what they said to him?

im not sure what you mean ?

yeah, i pretty much agree with what evryone is saying, he txt me last nyt, and i told him to leave me alone..
=/