Remember that dream?...

[YesterdaysNews]

Okay, so um, awhile back I had a dream about being raped by my ex boyfriend, who was pressuring me to send him pictures of myself and what not...

Last night he texted me asking for my help. he said that he had been flirting with this girl and she wanted to have sex with him, but he is a virgin and she is not, so he basically asked me to be his practice dummy. "everything but actual sex" were his words... he said he wanted to learn how to "please a girl" in that way, I told him that I could give him advice but that was it and his response was "I only learn by actually doing things"

This confused the shit out of me. and made me feel worthless, disposable. I don't know how to feel, or how to deal with this. I told him no, but I know he'll keep asking me about it... and this time it wouldn't be solely for his own pleasure... I just don't want to deal with this right now...

GAH... sorry for the rant. if this belongs somewhere else, move it.

[TheKingDavis]

he most likely said there was another girl just so he could have sex with you

[Quick_Sylver]

Ditto ^

He needs to hit the highway.Fast.

[YesterdaysNews]

Maybe, I have no idea what the hell is going through his head... he said that I "was the only one he could trust".... GAH :(
all he wants to do is use me as a fucking experiment, LITERALLY...
I'm not like that...

[XxHaViiK]

Okay.
1. He's a sick, horny bastard that can't find a GF to do "things" with. SO, he's trying to trick you into it.
2. If I was in your position, I'd tell him to go screw a pillow.

[Blue63]

Wow, that's just sad. It sounds like this guy isn't going to leave very easily. If I were you, tell him very clearly and sternly that he no means no (yeah I know that's cheesy, you can paraprhase =P) and that he needs to stop bombarding you with these questions. Then I would try my best to distance myself from him as much as possible. Good luck, this must be very hard.

[YesterdaysNews]

Thing is, he doesn't get the concept of "no means no", previously he harassed me for pictures of myself and when he didn't get them he spammed my phone with pictures of his penis. I can tell him no (and I did) but he'll "beg" for my help, its more annoying than anything really. but I don't know what he'll do if he gets desperate enough...

[Quick_Sylver]

Thing is, he doesn't get the concept of "no means no", previously he harassed me for pictures of myself and when he didn't get them he spammed my phone with pictures of his penis. I can tell him no (and I did) but he'll "beg" for my help, its more annoying than anything really. but I don't know what he'll do if he gets desperate enough...

If you're worried about what he might do you may want to talk to an adult. This sounds like he may be obsessing and might be willing to stalk you.

[YesterdaysNews]

he's not obsessing over me, he's obsessed with sex. All he wants me to do is use me so he can score with some other chick... :\

[OnlyByTheNight.]

Amanda hun, don't fall for it. Hes only using you for his own pleasure and he doesn't care about your feelings. Don't be that girl cause you're WAY better then that! Just tell him no everytime he brings it up until he gets the idea.

[YesterdaysNews]

I haven't heard from him about it since yesterday, but he wasn't at school today so whatever...

I do tell him no & I'll continue to, I just hope he gets tired of asking. thanks everyone, for your help <3

[Kahn]

Okay.
1. He's a sick, horny bastard that can't find a GF to do "things" with. SO, he's trying to trick you into it.
2. If I was in your position, I'd tell him to go screw a pillow.

He probably already did.

Tell this person to back off. You have the power to press harassment charges. You have the evidence on your phone so if he gets extremely bad keep those messages and show them too somebody.

[overcome.]

I really don't understand how somebody can;
a) have the nerve to treat somebody that way and ask that.
b) actually thinking that their pathetic proposition will get accepted.

Amanda, you're much better than that, and I know that you know you are too. Some people really do have some nerve and audasity. Don't worry though, the best thing to do would be to just cut off from him. Easier said than done I know, but that's my opinion. Or even if he always contacts you just ignore him. That kind of sexual harrassment or any harrassment isn't needed.