Im A Slave?

[Rmelnikas]

My dad keeps treating me like his slave, when ever he wants something its 'Ryan Go get it".
When he wants a coffee "Ryan Make Me Coffee"
when ever he has something im the one who does it he just sits on his fat ass and does nothing, if its not done right i have to do it again.

Some of you may say for me to tell him i feel like a salve or talk to him i have and it hasnt helped he tells me "Your my child and you will do as i say or get out of my house"

I don't know what to do??

[Quick_Sylver]

Well you could ignore him. You could also leave. I suggest the first option, unless the second is safer.
It sounds like the second sounds inevitable though.

[Rmelnikas]

i dont really want to leave atm because i have no where to go, im in my room all the time to keep away from it but mum goes off at me cause im always on the PC and never with the family. So what ever i do im in the shit

[Grinchilla]

I feel for you! :( Unfortunately, your father isn't really doing anything wrong. Just the mentality he was raised with. Being a bitch :p 50 years ago, all households were like this.

In life you have to do a lot of things you don't want to do. You have to take silly orders from a lot of stupid people. Might as well get used to it now. But have fun! Enjoy life! Don't get hung up on it. Just the way the world is.


Just make the coffee really shoddy.

[Rmelnikas]

your quite ttrue i never thought it like that but he could lay offf a bit

[Quick_Sylver]

It doesn't seem like he'd back off. All you can do is what Grin' said. Live life and love it.

[thisqboy4u]

I agree with grinchilla

[Nelson]

My dad keeps treating me like his slave, when ever he wants something its 'Ryan Go get it".
When he wants a coffee "Ryan Make Me Coffee"
when ever he has something im the one who does it he just sits on his fat ass and does nothing, if its not done right i have to do it again.

Some of you may say for me to tell him i feel like a salve or talk to him i have and it hasnt helped he tells me "Your my child and you will do as i say or get out of my house"

I don't know what to do??

Mate... Know exactly how you feel, My dad is exactly the same, even down to the "Your my child and you will do as i say or get out of my house", maybe our parents are twinds lol.... Dont always ignore him, he'll just get angry and take it out on you.

Thats all i have got... Hope it helps :)

Dylan

[Retribution]

In life you have to do a lot of things you don't want to do. You have to take silly orders from a lot of stupid people. Might as well get used to it now. But have fun! Enjoy life! Don't get hung up on it. Just the way the world is.
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The only words of wisdom I offer, are NEVER listen to or submit to people with the opinion Grinchilla holds.

Fight the oppression.

There is a cycle of cr*p. Your father became like this because he accepted its how his parents treated him. Don't accept things. Don't be a coward like him and Grinchilla here.

Stand out. Change things.

[Bougainvillea]

Actually, your parents do a lot for you. And if you're going to complain about having to make coffee and get the mail from him, then life is going to kick your ass.

[ChaoticHarmony]

yea it sucks, i kno. but you just gotta get thru it....as i say:
when the shit hits the fan, all you can do is say "oh well", move on, and smile. cause whining and worrying about it does nothing but make your life more depressing and annoying.
i really wish i could tell you that you dont have to stand for that crap and that you gotta fight the power (as Retribution said), but in my honest opinion, i dont think its the best idea, as you will only get hurt more.
just suck it up, get the mail, and spit in his coffey :P

if u ever need to vent, im here for ya :D
-david

[damn almonds]

i have the same problem... ;(

[2D]

They're your parents, do as they say. You think that he just sits on his fat ass and does nothing, but he's the reason you have a place to sleep and food on the table I bet. Things could be worse. Just get him his damn coffee. To me it just sounds like you're another whiny teenager who needs to get over his pride. Once you're older you'll understand why he was so rough.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Your parents, give you a home, they work day in and day out so you can have the stuff you want. Yet, you complain about doing simple little tasks when they ask you too? That's incredibly disrespectful, all they do is pump money into you. All your concerned with however is your own time. You are not a slave, so just make him some coffee, it takes 3 mins you won't die.