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Gumleaf
November 17th, 2009, 12:11 AM
for the last little while i've been trying to figure some stuff out. for those of you that know me, you would know that i have a girlfriend and we have been together for over a year and a half now. i love her a lot and she makes me really happy. the problem is i have a crush on another girl. but there are some complications though, the crush i have is on an online friend and the other thing that makes it weird is that even though i'm liking this girl more and more all the time, i'm finding my girlfriend more and more sexy and i'm loving her more then normal. its really bizzare and i can't explain it. i'm having trouble with this because i don't know if this crush is going to go away or not and right now its only getting stronger. i really don't know what to do, the only thing i can think of is that my meds for depression is affecting my romantic emotions, but i'm not sure. i really don't know. :(
AllThatIsLeft
November 17th, 2009, 12:22 AM
Crushes are normal, you love Jo, and that can't change from an online person.
Forget about this girl, and don't let it worry you.
You have an amazing person at your side, and those in the far lands can't change that.
ILOVEYOU
November 17th, 2009, 12:49 PM
Dont worry, as Paula said, Crushes are normal, take it easy and let it pass. try not to lose the one you Love.. Good Luck ;)
Kaleidoscope Eyes
November 17th, 2009, 10:59 PM
I've gotta agree with Paula on this one.
Crushes happen, even when you're in a relationship, and there's nothing wrong with it. The only thing that matters is that you do still love Jo and want to be in the relationship with her. If that ever changes, whatever the reason, that's when you need to reconsider things.
Just because you love one person doesn't mean that you become incapable of finding others attractive, either physically or emotionally, and that's not something you can really do anything about. So don't worry about it. :)
Aves
November 18th, 2009, 10:24 PM
As Paula, and everyone else said. Crushes are normal, and you can't stop finding others attractive. Just don't worry about it.
Kale
November 18th, 2009, 11:22 PM
the grass may seem greener on the other side, but it's probably polluted with acidic alien urine.
stick with your current girl, imo.
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