Why cant she leave me alone?!

[TheKingDavis]

(CAUTION STRONG LANGUAGE)
ok this will probably be pretty long

its mostly a rant about my parental unit

Ok my "mother" is a fucking bitch, she really REALLY just pissed me the fuck off, im not a spoiled child, i do alot for her stupid ass.

I was fixing to type out my homework and my mother tellse me "do the dishes" i said "mom, my left index finger is in a splint and my right wrist is in a brace" she goes "so? stop talking back and do the damn dishes" I said "mom im freaking hurt, it hurts move my wrist and my finger" she says "Just do what your told"

by this time im pissed the fuck off, becuase i fucked up my wrist helping her stupid boyfriend put up 4 miles of fucking fence and i didnt even get paid to do the shit.

I usually dont care if i get paid or not (usually dont get paid) but i fucked myself up helping her fucking lazy ass boyfriend.

She just pisses me off so damn much, after i finished the dishes she says "Go bring in the new dog food bag" i say "mom i just messed up my wrist even more, i cant freakin pick up 50 pounds right now!" she says "Stop arguing and go do it"

There hasnt been a single day since Jr high that me and that bitch havent argued.

honestly once i graduate i plan to not see her till shes in a damn casket.

[hugslut]

my parents are much the same, just refuse to do that crap and see how she takes it.

[Bougainvillea]

You know what?

You'll regret those words when you see your mom dead.

The day before my dad died, I threw a tantrum, because I had to dry the dishes. I told him that I never wanted to see him again.
At eleven years old, I watched my dad die. Sitting there thinking it was my fault. He was taking me to get ice cream as an apology for yelling at me.

[hugslut]

i agree. It is a bit harsh what you said, but i can still see where u are coming from

[TheKingDavis]

well when she constantly treats me like shit...

[Quick_Sylver]

I get where you're coming from but Vogue has a point. Under all the resentment she's still your mom...and mom's are moms...

[hugslut]

She just doesn't understand the affects of what she's doing

[Kinetic]

hey man, all you gotta do is just work up the courage to stand up to her and you tell her off, if she hits you, get the hell outa there >.> if shes not that type then say, idc if u yell or ground me or w.e jus tell her the fuck off, thats what i did to my parents and weve been closer ever since

[Bougainvillea]

Every kid thinks their parents treat them like shit.

At least your mom isn't a clinically depressed drunk.

Dustin there will be a time in your life when you will need your parents the most. You are pushing your mother farther out of your life when you think like this.
Sure, times can be tough. It may seem like she doesn't care Dustin, but she does. If she didn't, I wouldn't even be talking to you now. You wouldn't be wearing the clothes you have on, and you wouldn't be sleeping in the sheets that are on your bed now.

So, go to your mother, Dustin, and apologise for being disrespectful, Always forgive her. No matter how "mean" she gets. No matter how "careless" she seems.

She loves you, you know. You're her son, and the last thing she would want is for her own son to have hatred for her.

God knows, I wish I could apologise.

[TheKingDavis]

last time i stood up to my mom, i got slapped across the face

[AllThatIsLeft]

Choose your thoughts and words carefully, you never know when they will become true... and then, I assssureeeee you, you'll regret it.

as for your problem, you need to show some character... not offensive, but don't let her walk all over you.

[TheKingDavis]

i may regret it later,but ill leave that for the future

[Fiending_the_freedom]

Like they all said, we get where your comming from,
i personally tell everyone who asks about my relationship with my mom that she is a bitch,
but what i do know about her is she is a ignorant bitch,
which means, yea shes a bitch but she doesn't realize what effect it has.

Put it this way, your working full time, stressed out supporting you and if you have any siblings, on her own, and shes stressed out ofter work and takes it out on you, not realizing you didnt do anything wrong, shes just thinking "i am not doing any more fucking work today not after the day i've had i need to relax"

obviously you and your mom dont have great communitcation, because i bet if she sat you down and said "listen i know your wrist is hurt but i've had a terrible day i need to lye down could you please take care fo the dishes and dog food" then you probably wouldn't have thought the same thing about her.

you'd be surprised how much it can do just telling her "mom we need better communication so we can get along better because what we have now isn't working for me or you.

[TheKingDavis]

obviously you and your mom dont have great communitcation, because i bet if she sat you down and said "listen i know your wrist is hurt but i've had a terrible day i need to lye down could you please take care fo the dishes and dog food" then you probably wouldn't have thought the same thing about her

A. My mom would never do that, and shes never done that

B. Shes not just going to miraculously change

C. I dont have any siblings, and its not like we are bad off

[2D]

Vogue nailed it. My parent are 62 and 64 years old. And I've cried when I think of them not being here. I can never sleep if I haven't apologized for something.....Which reminds me. I need to say I'm sorry for yelling at her today for making me clean my room. Oh God how I have a horrible life.

[TheKingDavis]

Vogue nailed it. My parent are 62 and 64 years old. And I've cried when I think of them not being here. I can never sleep if I haven't apologized for something.....Which reminds me. I need to say I'm sorry for yelling at her today for making me clean my room. Oh God how I have a horrible life.

Cut the sarcasm about the horrible life, my mom verbally abuses me all the time,
she used to hit me all the time but she finally stopped when i reached 11th grade

[Bluearmy]

Opposition

Do what your mother says no matter how much you think you hate her. Don't argue with people like that that are in that position of power over you. Just do as you are told despite the pain, and pray that she will eventually care. You can only live with it, unless you plan to continue in revolt, (which will ultimately make your life even more miserable then it would if you would just do as your told when you are told.).

Another suggestion would be to try to stay away from her, (with civil practice.) Try to conjure watertight excuses so you don't have to be around her as much. Not to be rude, but form what I see... your mother isn't doing such a good job as her title.

[cherry_boi]

people aren't just mean for the sake of being mean, there is a reason for it

whatever it may be ur mom doesn't have a perfect life either

people aren't perfect

pushing her out of ur life will do neither of you any good, communicating with her in an understanding manor is probly a better bet

try a little empathy chances are it will be returned,

u might end up learning something from her current harshness, it's another situation to develop your character...into whatever kind of person you want to be depending on how u deal with it.... and be glad u had those experiences

there r so many things you don't understand now that u hopefully will later

[BlackBetty]

Cut the sarcasm about the horrible life, my mom verbally abuses me all the time,
she used to hit me all the time but she finally stopped when i reached 11th grade

Just do what she says no matter how bad you feel... When people ask about my mom, I tell them she is a bitch.. She is, but I don't say that I won't see her again until she's in a casket..

I've had more shit to happen to me than you, physicallt hurt wise. And I still did what my mom asked me.. It might had been slow but it got done, and she understood it. :yeah:

[Bougainvillea]

Just do what she says no matter how bad you feel... When people ask about my mom, I tell them she is a bitch.. She is, but I don't say that I won't see her again until she's in a casket..

I've had more shit to happen to me than you, physicallt hurt wise. And I still did what my mom asked me.. It might had been slow but it got done, and she understood it. :yeah:

Exactly. My mom used to beat me all the time, and she blamed me for my dad's death for a while. And I occasionally still get a slap across the face once in a while. But you know what? She's family. You don't hate family. You don't give up on family. There are exceptions, and this shit certainly is NOT one of them.

[Rutherford The Brave]

What's wrong with doing stuff for your mother? Atleast you have a mom.

[BlackBetty]

What's wrong with doing stuff for your mother? Atleast you have a mom.

EXACTLY!! Some people don't have a mother figure and is hurt by that everyday! Just because she can be a bitch don't mean you can act like that to her.

This is how us teens get bad names.

[TheKingDavis]

EXACTLY!! Some people don't have a mother figure and is hurt by that everyday! Just because she can be a bitch don't mean you can act like that to her.

This is how us teens get bad names.

And some people dont have a father either.
Its not like i asked to be fatherless

[Sage]

Short answer: She's your mother and you're 16.

[Bougainvillea]

And some people dont have a father either.
Its not like i asked to be fatherless

I'm sure it's hard on her, too, right?

[Kitty Purry]

You are just being very disrespectful, what you need to be thankful for what she does. You have a bed, a computer , food, and a home. What my parents do when I get in trouble is take my matress away and make me sleep on the floor. So be thankful

[theOperaGhost]

Short answer: She's your mother and you're 16.

This answer is the best answer given....Jeff's and Chris's are close seconds...Stop bitching about every little thing...Do the dishes...feed the dog...you're probably the one who begged for the dog anyway...take care of it. I can't stand little bitches who complain about their parents all the damn time.

[TheKingDavis]

This answer is the best answer given....Jeff's and Chris's are close seconds...Stop bitching about every little thing...Do the dishes...feed the dog...you're probably the one who begged for the dog anyway...take care of it. I can't stand little bitches who complain about their parents all the damn time.

Um no. They are both her dogs. Not mine

I cant stand the bitches who make assumptions without asking

[2D]

Um no. They are both her dogs. Not mine

I cant stand the bitches who make assumptions without asking

Respect or GTFO.

So what if they're her dogs. You think she has it easy? I'm pretty sure it's harder for her to keep a roof over your head and food on your plate than it is for you to feed the dogs and do the dishes.

[theOperaGhost]

Um no. They are both her dogs. Not mine

I cant stand the bitches who make assumptions without asking

Don't feed the damn dogs then...let them die since you don't seem to give a shit.

[TheKingDavis]

Don't feed the damn dogs then...let them die since you don't seem to give a shit.

Seriously? The fuck? just gtfo of my thread

[AllThatIsLeft]

The insulting will stop right now. or infractions will be delivered to all participating parties. NO EXCEPTIONS!

[Rutherford The Brave]

Don't feed the damn dogs then...let them die since you don't seem to give a shit.

I agree. If you don't want to feed the dogs do not. but if they die its on your head.

[skribbles23]

well suck it up kid

[TheKingDavis]

seriously? everyon just acts like im some spoiled teenager... w/e live my life, then you can judge me

[Bougainvillea]

We can judge because of the lives WE liveed, to them.

[theOperaGhost]

seriously? everyon just acts like im some spoiled teenager... w/e live my life, then you can judge me

That's because you're acting like a spoiled teenager...You live one of our lives, then you'll know what we're on about.

[AllThatIsLeft]

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