girlfriend issue

[Kinetic]

ok my girlfriend is mad because i won't have sex with her, she keeps on messing with my friends and saying if i dont have sex with her at least "once" then shes gonna go have sex with other guys, i told her off today about how sex isnt everything and that if she wants to make this work she will drop it...
THEN!...
one of my best friends is bi, jus like me and he didnt kno i was dating my girlfriend, so he asked me if we cud go "mess around" later today, which i said yes too. she found out and now she's even more mad... what do i do?

[Quick_Sylver]

*blinks* You told your girlfriend no to sex...Wow, good on you.

Back to topic. In my opinion, you should tell her to hit the road. What's she's suggesting, "going off and having sex with other guys", is being a slut. I'm sorry if this offends you but it's the truth. However it's your choice.

[Blue63]

Well first of all good for you for standing up to your girlfriend about an issue like that!

Honestly, I don't really think you to are very good for each other, first of all since she is threatening things like that, that's the first indicator to break up with her. The second reason is in yourself. You agreed on doing sexual things with a bi friend but not your girlfriend, she has a right to be mad about that, because I'm pretty sure that's considered cheating. So it seems like your kind of losing interest in her, and you guys want different things. Now I could be wrong, but I think the best thing to do is to go your separate ways

[Kinetic]

well i guess your both right, only reason i say no to her is because shes asked so many damn times shes jus not "hot" to me anymore..
@tootsie~
and yeah that was my fault but like we messed around for 5 mins and then we play modern warfare 2

i think shes mad because she wanted it today and i told her no like 5 times today and then she txts me while im at gabes house saying "come over right now, i want u bla bla"

[TheKingDavis]

dont put yourself into a situation you arent comfortable in, sounds like she just wants in your pants, my opinion is to dump her, oh im giving you + rep for saying no to her :D

[Kinetic]

dont put yourself into a situation you arent comfortable in, sounds like she just wants in your pants, my opinion is to dump her, oh im giving you + rep for saying no to her :D

thanks :D yeah i jus went over to her house and i told her that it wasnt working out and that "i was wrong for picking a friend over you but, when all you want to do is have sex and we don't even hang anymore and do normal things like we use to... your just using me, this is jus ridiculous"

shes all "i wasn't using you i just think its something we should do, i don't understand why you won't have sex with me bla bla" then i told her that shes nasty and i left
the end :D

[hugslut]

dump her?
It obviously isn't working. She cheats on you and you are willing to cheat on her...whats the point ??

edit: haha sorry just read the first few posts ^.^