Cant stop fighting =/

[MacMilker]

So, there is this kid at my school named alex and we r kinda friends kind of not. i feel like hes trying to make friends with my groups of friends, which he succeeds in because he is very likable / funny at times. then after he is friends with them he stirs up trouble in my close group about rumors and things i said etc, most of them are lies but they believe him. this makes my friends angry at me and sometimes dont talk to me at all. i try to tell my friends and they get mad at me because they think that hes rlly nice and would never do this. he also talks about me all the time with the popular crowd, who i am friends with some of them because they too are nice, he says i say some of the girls are whores and i call them fat 24/7 which is also a lie.
So i talk to him bout it and his defense is i talk about him with his friends which is not true because i dont like his friends. one day hes a jerk and the next we r goofing off in the halls making each other laugh hysterically until we fall down the stairs lol.
Basically my question is ( i have a couple i suppose it should be questions) 1. does he really think i talk about him or is he trying to get rid of me
2. should i stay friends with him and try to talk to him about it (which always fails) or should i "kick him to the curve unless he looks like Mic Jagger" haha sorry lyric in a song

Thanks for you time always appreciated!!!! :)


FALCONBR8VE

[thedudeman]

dont fight, fighting is fucking retarded, this could be the beginning of a high school life full of beef and bullshit, so fucking stressful
what you need to do is sit down all your friends and tell them who this kid really is, be serious, get your point across, yell if you have to, this kid is a leech, a thickheaded leech, if you beat him up hes just gunna tell your friends, he beat me up cuz i was telling you guys what he says, or even worse, you could lose the fight, and end up humiliated, start down a peaceful path early, dont talk shit, dont hang with people like that, let him know your not his friend

[Art_dude]

Sounds like this guy is jealous and wants to take over your 'status' in your social group. By coming across as a seemingly funny, nice, and innocent guy, he gains the affection of your friends, and once he has their trust he starts a rumor about you to get you 'kicked out' of the clique. It's classic, middleschool drama. Sounds like a real jerk to me. I'm not saying that when you're having a fun time with him that it isn't genuine, but I'd keep your guard up if I were you. It sounds like he's planning a takeover. Talk to your friends about how you feel and try to keep your ground.