my problem

[jason2311]

ok this is going to be like a novel. so this is my story and i want some opinions if you even feel like reading it.


Ok so last year i dated a girl for about six months and she really liked me but i ran into problems with her that i couldnt take anymore so we broke up. i met her friend. i always had a crush on her and even a bit when i was in a relationship (i know thats bad) but its true. the end of the year came by and i started to like her more and more and i was barely seeing her. i got my first cell phone around june and her friend gave me her number so we started texting.

Throughout the whole summer we texted alot and alot and alot. we never saw eachother once though cause she was out of town for the summer. she told me everything and i felt like i trust her more then my perents. but my hopes were killed when she told me she was having this thing with a guy. and he is all that, hes that tv guy who every girl dreams of. i gave her honest opinions and she started to think he is a player and i tried to talk her out of that.

towards august she stopped talking with him (i think) and i told her how i felt about her and how much i liked her. she didnt reject me but she also didnt take me she just said that she started crying so i was confused shitless. then she said we cant date so i just said ok. we stayed as friends

september came around and school started. turns out she was in my gym class. we talked and it was a bit akward but it was then i noticed how much i really liked her. im not the kinda guy who dates girls cause thry look good. i only want a nice personality and thats what i saw in her. she is also amazingly pretty and when she smles i feel like i go mad with desire.

so around then were still texting and she told me why she cried that night. she still knew i liked her alot. turns out it was cause she liked me, and the reason she didnt want to say anything was cause my ex still liked me and she didnt wanna hurt her. she started liking me in june. but she knew she couldnt date me cause my ex so she made herself like someone else and she killed her feelings for me.

this pretty much leaves me whee i am now. she still knows im crazy for her and when i see her smile and her eyes i go crazy. i like her more then anyone i ever have, i know i sound desperate but i like her way too much. people try making me feel better by saying theres better girls out there and the only thing i can say is theres only 1 of her. right now shes seeing that guy again and on a date with him as i speak. i tried dating and everything to not like her but shes always on my mind.

and thats the short version. i just want opinions on the story an what i should do.

thanks if you actually read all that

[Matty.]

i think you should just move on, it will be hard but you have to, especially if there is no chance you two will ever get together. plus, if she is on a date with her ex again you have to move on otherwise you might put pressure on their relationship if they get back together.

you have to find someone who you love and loves you back without it hurting anyone else. it happens thats life :(

[jason2311]

thats what im trying. i went on 2 dates since and on both of them she was still on my mind which probly ruined them. im not commenting on her new relationships so i dont affect anything. idk how to move on

[Matty.]

how often do you see her? do you go on her myspace alot?

you have to avoid her as much as you can so you can stop thinking about her.

[jason2311]

i dont really even go on facebook and i dont got myspace. i see her pretty much every day but im tryin a bit not to cause her smile and her eyes make me feel like i like her so im trying not to see that.