im confuzed

[itzyogrll]

kk i askd thiz on google nd got tons of diff answers... my q iz

iz the grllz hymen in the front of the opening of her vagina like before u put somthin in it or inside the vagina about 3/4
inches deep?? :what:


and wen a guy iz fingurin u how can u hav him avoid popping ur cherry??

doez he not go 2 fazt hard or deep??? :confused:


plzzz help nd anser theze 4 me!!! tnx

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

The hymen is like a band of tissue around the opening. It varies a bit, the exact placement, but it's going to be close to the opening. You're not likely to find it if you go looking, though, it's not really an obvious structure. When it "breaks", it's from being stretched width-wise. So, fingering isn't likely to do anything to your hymen.

May I ask why you're so concerned? Having a physically intact hymen and still being a virgin are two totally separate things, if that's what you're concerned about. As I said before, a hymen can be broken doing things which have nothing to do with sex--and it doesn't suddenly make you not a virgin anymore. You can't accidentally lose your virginity while doing something other than sex, because as long as you are someone who has not had sex you are still a virgin.

[hugslut]

Also just because someone fingers you doesn't mean your hymen will break. Most hymens still leave a "hole", it doesn't completely cover the opening. (in most cases)

[Grinchilla]

It's farther in. Fingers usually won't catch it. Kaleidoscope Eyes is genius. Listen to her

Too much weight is put on vaginal intercourse! like if you have anal intercourse, are you still a virgin? Are homosexuals virgins? And rape? Just because you lose your hymen doesn't mean you're not a virgin... and just because you didn't have a penis in your vagina, doesn't necessarily mean you're a virgin.

Sorry... it just struck me as weird that you were so worried about having a hymen and being a virgin, but you let someone finger you. Both are significant as I see it.

Just something to think about my dear, but at least you are not taking on the increased risks of vaginal intercourse