had enough

[madman]

i have really had enough of people who will come over all friendly and be ok with me, then for no reason at all just turn on me. i have no idea why, i think im a nice person and i try to be nice to every1 and help people. this happens all the time in real life and with people online. i m a nice natured person and i've had enough its killing me really

[Aspiringanonymous]

I always tell myself that people have their personal reasons for what they do, that may or may not have anything to do with my behaviour or actions. Perhaps something casual I said triggered unpleasant memories or emotions from their own lives for example; this occurs unknowingly in interpersonal contact all the time. Generally, when one feels unfairly treated, they would retaliate. But when the indignation is from within, one cannot justly accuse someone who did not actually do anything wrong. Choosing to act hostile without apparent reason is not uncommon at that point.

Other times, actions have no reason at all; but rather is a purely random, spur of the moment deal.

How frequently does this occurrence happen?

[madman]

not always, just now and then, its abit annoying but theres always more friends

[ChaoticHarmony]

your right there, theres always more friends.

personally, if someone gets mad at me (someone who thought was a friend) and wont tell me why, but instead just ignores me and disassociates me from them, then i would begin to think that they really arent that good of a friend...and i dont like dealing with those kinds of people.

you probably shouldnt take it personally, like Krezlyn said, you may have accidentally triggered an unpleasent memory.

you could try talking to them and figuring out whats wrong and how you could solve it. but if that doesnt work, move on. they aren't worth your time and effort.