Making Friends

[unidanman]

I'm like one of those kids who got bullied alot as a intermediate kid... 11,12yr old... well. I was bullied cos i was a weird shit. behaved very differently VERY differently... I have no mental disorder but... Anyway, I have only ever had a couple of friends at a time and those were other odd ones, still they had normal friends.
Now Ive grown up and the peeps who bullied me now chat to me and respect me, but still aren't interested in becoming friends. i hate first impressions... i dont wanna go to a different school cos i have 1 year left and the friends i have are close...
On a related but different subject i am rather lazy not fat slob lazy but if i got a job id be the sort of person who would get bored after a month and Quit...
If i had money i could get a car and stuff like that for people to impress then them
BTW I know money cant buy you happiness but it can help you get there...
E.G. Green Day are coming to N.Z. in a few weeks and i would love to go.... a few peeps are trying to encourage me to go but i dont have the money... same thing with ACDC a month later... although thats more probable... cos 1 of dads colleagues needs a crew to set up for the concert...
Im rambling



How do you make friends when you have a weird reputation and people are being *******&******* <-lol

[enzenzz]

if your personality is what's causing you problems making friends then you probably need to change some aspects of it. be interested with the other person and not just make them interested in you.

[gone]

here's some advice that can be very useful
Just dont care what other people think of you
be yourself, be confident
you dont need to impress them, you have close friends thats good
dont take them for granted
good luck ;)
btw, go to ac(lightning bolt) dc :D

[unidanman]

I honestly dont care what people think of me but it gets a bit lonely at times

[Quick_Sylver]

I honestly dont care what people think of me but it gets a bit lonely at times

Welcome to the club. All you can do is be yourself and enjoy life.

[Kahn]

1. Type right. Example; Instead of cos how about Because.
2. You don't need to impress anybody. Don't give them Material goods in exchange for friendship. Thats just like saying, "I'll give you 5 bucks for 1 dollar". Your getting less than what your asking for.
3. Go to the concerts. It would be fun, get to know some people.

Hope this helps in any kind of way.

~Adam

[luciia96]

are you shy?
why do you think you behave very differently?

[NVerson]

here's some advice that can be very useful
Just dont care what other people think of you
be yourself, be confident
you dont need to impress them, you have close friends thats good
dont take them for granted
good luck ;)
btw, go to ac(lightning bolt) dc :D

i agree with him:yes:

[SapphireDragon13]

That sounds like the same problem I have.... Just be yourself and forget about everyone else's opinions about you, because *usually* they are relying on false assumptions, rather than actually getting to know you first. Just try talking to new people and get to know them--It's fine if you're shy, because I am too, but all my friends are completely amazing. Usually, if someone will actually take the time to get to know you better, then they will think you're an alright person. Good luck! :)

~Jenelle