is it gay

[seanmax]

is it gay to do sexual things with a friend...like jacking off...or blow jobs....if you are not gay have you done anything?

[madman]

i wouldnt call it gay, more curious and im sure lots of people have done it, not sure everyone would admit to it butit can and does happen with straight/bi and gay guys

[dantheman5000]

i would like ive said sexual exploration! if you too end up gay thats ok. but no its not gay. actually its fun!!!

[Rainstorm]

To answer your question, no. It is, more or less, curiosity.

[gone]

its pretty gay, haha
so what if it is...
live life have fun
:)

[Suicune]

It's curiosity. However if it went farther than Hand/blowjobs then thats a different story.

[trouble]

i'd say its curiosity but then again oral is sex so it goes either way

[nexus1727]

well, i would say that's definitely a gay act...but that won't make you gay.

and of course there are certain "limits" where things get wierd..like masturbation and mutual masturbation is kinda below the limit, but i would think that blow jobs and other sexual acts are a bitt over the limit if u know what i mean :)

[jgibbsd]

You are just curious i have done it.

[joeyfromvegas]

i don't think it's gay. i think that everyone has some sort of curiosity. I've done all that before with my friend and i dont think im gay.

[Art_dude]

ughh... This question has been asked NUMEROUS times.
if you're asking whether doing sexual acts with another male makes you homosexual then NO. Your sexuality is comprised not only of sexual attraction to the same sex but emotional attraction as well.

If you're asking if the sexual act ITSELF is homosexual then YES. Obviously performing a sexual act with a member of the same sex is a homosexual act.

[BlackBetty]

It's not gay... Its curious acts... If you are gay, you are physically and mentally atracted to another man.

[Dean1]

Na its not gay i have given my friend a and job and he ave me one and were both not gay its juts that we are curious

[BigBulge]

i haven't done anything yet but it is most definitely not gay.

[Fourth Dimension]

it just means your courious

[Drusilla Rules]

umm that's a bit compliacted well itm means ur curious being bi or gay would b if ur atracted to ur friend u could just b really horny lol

[Impact13]

not really i think its curiosity

[BlackBetty]

It's curiosity.

[stech]

Hey,

Im 17 and im gay


I'd like to try and explain these sort of things


The simple fact is.... its not what you do its what you feel


I've had sex with women.... but that dosnt make me straight


Its all about how you feel.... and my advice is....

if you come to a point when you think your gay.... try it... y'knever know.... and if you know your gay... dont deny it...

the people who know you wont care.... (i have some very homophobic friends..... and i still have then now.... its just more funny when you give them drunken hugs....)

So..... do what you feel is right....


if your straight your straight.... if your gay your gay..... if you have feelings for both... your bi....

And that is somthing you cant change..

[MarcMan906]

im 120% straight and if one of my friends told me they did that i would consider them gay. no offence

[Virgin Pride]

If you are young and feel unsure about things like gay/straight/girls/yourself, chances are you aren't gay unless dicks are floating around in your head all day. I really wouldn't reccommend giving your friend a bj ...

[booo]

others might see it as gay. some may see it as being curious. its basicly what you think of it that matters.

[Kitty Purry]

I'm straight and I have jacked off with friends but would neve do anything more than that

[bubba_is_confussed]

just bc u do something sexual with a guy, doesnt mean that u r gay. some ppl think of it as a recreational thing. others may like it bc it is something different for them to do.

[ACQD139F83J]

Who cares? if you enjoy it then do it, it might mean you're bi, but there is absolutely wrong with that and frankly, I find this thread offensive. Why would you care if you were bi or gay?

[Maxxy]

I'm not gay and I've done those things with guys when I was younger. I was curious, it didn't mean I was gay, I just needed something for my curiosity. I don't believe there is anything wrong with this

[Ballin2much]

i am straight, and my friend and i actually jacked off with each other when we were younger, like 10 or 11 or something. i guess its normal. just dont go any further.

[darkiouz]

i'd say its curiosity but then again oral is sex so it goes either way

Oral isnt sex. Sex is primarily for making children (and secondly for pleasure:yummy:), so its not sex. Anal can be debated because its still expressing yourself in the same fashion, but the end result is different...

I would say j/o together isnt, giving each other hand jobs is probably ok once or twice.. but oral is pretty much gay/bi.

[Giles]

Not necessarily - If you have feelings for the guy underneath the flesh, then it's bi/gay. If you only want to touch (or whatever) the guy, then it's just curious.

[darkiouz]

Not necessarily - If you have feelings for the guy underneath the flesh, then it's bi/gay. If you only want to touch (or whatever) the guy, then it's just curious.

What about men who sleep with men in one night stands? Or women sleeping with women for one night stands, they dont feel for each other but want to touch each other/have sex... So their not gay then?..:cool:

[alex_327]

Curiousity and Sexual Exploration...unless you have feelings of Love for him/them...then no it's not gay.
I'm not afraid to admit I've done it.

[hocekykid22]

its not gay..i guess its just curious...im not gay and ive done the sme kinda stuff with a friend.

[pageplant77]

I wouldn't say that your gay, you were just experimenting. And thats completely normal. But at the same time its also completely notmal NOT to experiment. I wouldn't worry though

[obknobe]

I think it's HOT!

[IAMWILL]

Please don't bump threads over 2 weeks old, they died for a reason.
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