feeling so pathetic..

[PinkGrass]

I feel really pathetic and stupid..
So probably you guesses what iI done already..
I thought I can stop but my dream cme true and then someone took it away from me..
I got no one to talk to know..
I feel like cutting all the time..
Why I'm never good enough for anyone..?
Why I'm never going to be loved..?

[Aspiringanonymous]

You'll never truly be good enough for anyone else. You must learn to be good enough for yourself, because you are the only person that matters at the end of the day. Others cannot take anything away from you. You are subconsciously allowing 'things' - in this case, strength - to run away and chase after another person.

Talk to us, like you have just been doing. We are always here. Don't beat yourself up too much for the relapse, for in every fall one gains strength and insight, until the day they finally possess what it takes to break through once and for all.

[nick]

Paulina, its far too early to conclude you will never be loved, and so very unlikely to be true. Just about everyone is loved by someone, parents, grandparents, friends, teachers even. Maybe that's not the sort of love you feel you need, but the other type comes along when you least expect it, and it will come...

[PinkGrass]

it's just i fell in love with someone so bad and then we broke up , and after about 6 months of trying to get him back he said he wants me back and promised to be with me and take care of me as he did before...
today he said he's kinda seeing someone else and they don't like me much..
he also said he's happy..
i just broke down because since he left me i dreamed about just hearing him saying that he wants me back and when it happened it just broke me down because someone else was better than me again...

[nick]

That's tough, but that's life. It happens to us all. Sometimes you just have to take time to come to terms with it and move on.

[Aspiringanonymous]

You remind me of a personal friend very much, actually.

Learn to be conscious of what your mind is doing. While there is nothing inherently wrong with sustaining illogical fantasies that clearly do not coincide with concrete reality, you must understand that such hopes are very fragile and easily torn down, and when that happens, the effects on one's being can be devastating.

It took my friend over four years just to realize this, and only recently is she truly beginning to work towards acceptance and the strength to move on.