Philip
November 10th, 2009, 02:56 PM
How to Have a First Kiss.
Guys
1. Don't be Shy Girls want you to kiss them. If you like a girl, DON'T tell her you love her just to get a kiss.
2. Have a mint. Make sure you are kissably fresh.
3. Shave. Or don't. If you are going on a date with a girl you think you will want to kiss at some point, don't go with a five o'clock shadow or heavy stubble. Whisker burn is a true problem, and you will cut your kissing prospects seriously if you sand her face of with your stubble. Either go clean and baby-smooth, or let it grow out enough to be soft and tickly. A day or two's worth of whiskers will render you unkissable, except for the bare minimum. No girl wants to walk around with an itchy, red rash around her mouth for days just for the privilege of your kiss.
4. Respect her privacy. Most girls will not want to make out in front of others, especially if this is her first kiss. Find the right time when you can be alone. Privacy is the key.
5. Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing - she may flirt with you, then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss!
6. Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn't look away then she is ready.
7. Lean in slowly. Don't swoop in like a condor! Make it slow, nice, easy, romantic.
8. Hold her. Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven's sake. Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you (again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her).
9. Look into her eyes. Notice how we mention eye contact twice? Very important, amigo. Let her know that you are really seeing her.
10. Look at her lips. Aim, dude. Make sure you know where you're going. Lean in, and go in for the kiss.
11. Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don't want to give her a chaste little peck. You also don't want to (well, you may want to, but don't!) shove your tongue down her throat. An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable. Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn't be mushy or too tight (relax). Don't let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) - think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but make it flirtatious and not insistent.
12. Wait for her response. Just remain silent and smile, better yet hug her, ending the first kiss in a lovely, intimate moment.
13. Body Language Watch her look for the telltale signs that she wants to kiss you like:looking at your lips, licking her lips and or biting her bottom lip.
Warnings
• Make sure you don't have any food stuck in your teeth or braces.
• Make sure your breath smells good.
• Watch out for mono (mononucleiosis) or HSV-1 known as oral herpes.
• Make sure the person you are about to kiss does not have things in their teeth.
• Keep in mind, that it might taste a bit mushy at first, but you'll get used to it.
• If the guy has a little beard scruff, keep kissing short - too intense, or too long, and the girl can get a "whisker burn" on her chin or around her lips - very embarrassing.
Guys
1. Don't be Shy Girls want you to kiss them. If you like a girl, DON'T tell her you love her just to get a kiss.
2. Have a mint. Make sure you are kissably fresh.
3. Shave. Or don't. If you are going on a date with a girl you think you will want to kiss at some point, don't go with a five o'clock shadow or heavy stubble. Whisker burn is a true problem, and you will cut your kissing prospects seriously if you sand her face of with your stubble. Either go clean and baby-smooth, or let it grow out enough to be soft and tickly. A day or two's worth of whiskers will render you unkissable, except for the bare minimum. No girl wants to walk around with an itchy, red rash around her mouth for days just for the privilege of your kiss.
4. Respect her privacy. Most girls will not want to make out in front of others, especially if this is her first kiss. Find the right time when you can be alone. Privacy is the key.
5. Watch for signals. Watch carefully, because sometimes the signals can be confusing - she may flirt with you, then smack you on the head. These may just be coy games, or she may really be conflicted. Ask yourself these questions: Did you and your date seem to have a cozy, warm, close time together? Has she been flirting with you through body language? Has she licked her lips, or bit her lower lip while looking at you? Has she found excuses to touch you often? If you feel confident of these things, prepare to kiss!
6. Make eye contact. If she is comfortable and doesn't look away then she is ready.
7. Lean in slowly. Don't swoop in like a condor! Make it slow, nice, easy, romantic.
8. Hold her. Do not use a first kiss as your personal excuse to grope, grab, or get too familiar. Be a gentleman, for heaven's sake. Reach around her waist, gently draw her toward you (again, gentlemen, do not squish her up against you and then grind your pelvis against her).
9. Look into her eyes. Notice how we mention eye contact twice? Very important, amigo. Let her know that you are really seeing her.
10. Look at her lips. Aim, dude. Make sure you know where you're going. Lean in, and go in for the kiss.
11. Walk that fine line and make it a really excellent kiss. You don't want to give her a chaste little peck. You also don't want to (well, you may want to, but don't!) shove your tongue down her throat. An excellent first kiss is one that is romantic, tender and memorable. Your mouth should not be overly opened or closed, and it shouldn't be mushy or too tight (relax). Don't let it go too long (more than, say, 20 seconds) or let it be too short (3 seconds is not enough) - think around 10 seconds or so. A tiny hint of tongue is nice if she seems willing, but make it flirtatious and not insistent.
12. Wait for her response. Just remain silent and smile, better yet hug her, ending the first kiss in a lovely, intimate moment.
13. Body Language Watch her look for the telltale signs that she wants to kiss you like:looking at your lips, licking her lips and or biting her bottom lip.
Warnings
• Make sure you don't have any food stuck in your teeth or braces.
• Make sure your breath smells good.
• Watch out for mono (mononucleiosis) or HSV-1 known as oral herpes.
• Make sure the person you are about to kiss does not have things in their teeth.
• Keep in mind, that it might taste a bit mushy at first, but you'll get used to it.
• If the guy has a little beard scruff, keep kissing short - too intense, or too long, and the girl can get a "whisker burn" on her chin or around her lips - very embarrassing.