guys and looking

[Dibzy-Time]

Why is it that when guys are in a relationship, they still look at other girls. Yes i know girls do it as well. buh its more guys. Surly if your partner was right for you and surly if you love the person your with you wouldnt look at other people???? What is it. Why

[Quick_Sylver]

I'm guessing it's because they want what they can't have? (feel free to correct)

[ILOVEYOU]

i'm not like that myself, but.. i can feel you, because i have friends who are really kinda .. Perverted.. haha, they have gfs, but they are still looking for new ones, it may be because of his feeling, or he's still looking for his missing part. everything is possible.. nobody knows actually, ask himself!

[Dibzy-Time]

His feeling???? what feeling is that lol?

[uihwljtkegr]

I would think that it depends on the guy? I mean I'm a guy, and I'm not the sort of person to go around eyeing up other people when I'm in a relationship.

[Disconected]

its cuz guys are always looking for something better. like girls like shoes and will look at any pair they think looks nice even though they have a hundred at home. so its the same for guys but with girls....

[Darkness]

Dearie, if you owned the Mona Lisa would you still find other pictures nice?

Think about that...

[2D]

Dearie, if you owned the Mona Lisa would you still find other pictures nice?

Think about that...

Couldn't have said it any better.

[Blargy]

Why is it that when guys are in a relationship, they still look at other girls. Yes i know girls do it as well. buh its more guys. Surly if your partner was right for you and surly if you love the person your with you wouldnt look at other people???? What is it. Why

I just have to say that this isn't accurate.
Or at least not for any gentlemanly-types.
But I haven't heard of a single girl who doesn't.
So, think about that. :yes:

[Grinchilla]

you mean porn?

Sometimes they have fantasies that their lovers won't perform... up for hard-core anal? It's not necessarily wrong... nothing to be offended about.

A lot of it's out of pure boredom...which is also why men cheat.

[Aves]

Why is it that when guys are in a relationship, they still look at other girls. Yes i know girls do it as well. buh its more guys. Surly if your partner was right for you and surly if you love the person your with you wouldnt look at other people???? What is it. Why

Ok, there's a fine line between looking and cheating. Sure looking at other girls is wrong, but it's all hormones basically. Some can control them, others can't.

[laurita_21]

Its kind of like havin some video game or something :S ...they want the latest thing. they like what they have but they're just always on look out for something better.

[ILOVEYOU]

lol, dont worry, its just a feeling that guys mostly have, not a dangerous one. dont worry. just deal with it, and you can also tell your guy to dont look.

[pielo13]

As a guy i must admit i've done this before... Part of it is becuz once you get in a habbit u will always check a girl out no matter u being in a relationship or not... just a hard habit to break thats all

[Archer600]

Well honestly I don't look at other women if I'm dating someone...but that is out of respect for the girl...really don't get what u r talkin bout with the whole loving them thing I think I'm corect with saying that we r all in high school and love really doesn't happen for us we sorta just date for the hell of it and honestly I would dump a gir if she really thought she loved me

[kenoloor]

Well honestly I don't look at other women if I'm dating someone...but that is out of respect for the girl...really don't get what u r talkin bout with the whole loving them thing I think I'm corect with saying that we r all in high school and love really doesn't happen for us we sorta just date for the hell of it and honestly I would dump a gir if she really thought she loved me

I beg to differ COMPLETELY, and would naturally start debating, but that'd get off topic and people would get pissed at me.

As everyone else has said, it's all hormones, but it definitely depends on the guy. But, seriously, unless they're doing anything more than looking, I wouldn't worry about it, it's fine.

[Contra]

It's normal, sometimes it can't be controlled, sometimes they're just checking her out, and like Connor said, there's a difference between looking and cheating.

[theOperaGhost]

Because (straight) guys like girls and find them attractive. Everyone looks at something they find attractive. Just because someones boyfriend looks at a different girl doesn't mean they don't like (or even love) their girlfriend. I like what that one guy said about having the Mona Lisa...you have a masterpiece, but you're going to look at other works of art as well.

Besides, girls do the same thing just as much.

[Kitty Purry]

Well as I guy I have done this before almost all guys do it is just in our nature

[Art_dude]

Do you honestly think that men who look at other women while being in a relationship is 'wrong'? I hate it when women (and even men) equate flirting or looking at other women with mercilessly fucking someone else. As Darkness said, if you had the Mona Lisa would you not look at other pictures? Men look at other women because they're attractive. (and I've got some news for you: women look at attractive guys too) Does that mean they want them over you? Of course not. That's why you're in a relationship with him and not the other chick. People need to suck it up. If you really don't have the maturity to allow your partner to see beauty in other people, Remind yourself that although he's looking at waitress, he's not in love with her. He's in love with you. My god I can't stand this crap...

[cherry_boi]

it's people nature to look, compare and judge, lol in our DNA

doesn't mean we don't love the person we r with necessarily

[AllThatIsLeft]

What's wrong with looking, looking isn't cheating.

I hate when being in a relationship suddenly means you can't appreciate beauty, or looks from another person.

Same with hugs, and talking to other people.

Are you all that insecure that you don't want your partner to ever talk to another person alone, or hug them?

and now even worse, look at them?

It' silly to me.

[Misty.]

donno..i have seen my bf .. whenever we are togther..he is glued to me.. :P i mean...at times i wonder wowa...this girls looking realy pretty...but my bf is still checking me out :|
n..umm...genrally guys have this "thing" installed in their mind systems..!!!!
there are a few exceptions..though.. :)

[andrew_]

if you get a good guy they try their best to not look

[Teencuriosity]

personally if it was me that was doing that it is because i like to look at attractive women but thats because im a guy and im always thinking about sexual things but the one im with is prob. attracting and i have feelings towards her not just sexual thoughts about her........

[Saxophone 44]

The same reason our voices get deeper and we get hair on our chin. Hormones. I completely understand where your coming from, but we truthfully can't help it. We try SOOOOOO hard, but hormones get the best of us. Even the sweetest, most sensitive guy you'll ever meet will do this every now and then. Sorry.

[bmxkid313]

Everybody here is wrong as far as im concerned. Thousands of years ago men were judged on their rank in society by the number of wives/partners and children they have. Males have evolved a 'want' to reproduce, have sex, and get as many women as they can. This evolutionary trait has not gone away yet, some can suppress it... others can't.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

Please do not bump threads older than 2 months. This one is ancient history. :locked: