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Don3
November 8th, 2009, 06:42 PM
Someone told me that if i was gay or bi that i would have feelings towards a guy or guys in general but i'm 13 and i consider myself curious b/c I've recently started to question if i'm gay or not but people say thats just hormones and mainly b/c i don't have any attraction to guy ( sexual or emotional). Is that true that if i was gay or bi i would have feelings for a guy or guys in general by now?
??:confused:

nick
November 8th, 2009, 06:47 PM
I dont see how you can be gay or bi if you have no sexual or emotional attraction to other guys. However, if you dont feel fully sure and you're only 13, your feelings may change over the next few years, so it may be too soon to jump to any conclusion. Just stay cool, be happy with who you are, and wait and see.

Severus Snape
November 8th, 2009, 07:24 PM
^ I'm with this kid ^

It will be hard to tell until your horniness wears off and you can then decide what is left- a strong emotional attachment to members of the same sex or deep seeded feelings of regret.

Noobzilla
November 9th, 2009, 02:53 PM
It can be very hard to define if your bi or gay or straight. There are gay people that have sex with woman but they arnt bi, things like that can make it complicated, alot more complicated than just emotions and sexual attraction.

zgrazier
November 10th, 2009, 01:22 PM
its just hormones
you'll know later in puberty aha
if you are or not wait until 15 or 16 to make up your mind on what your sexuality is.
different people find out at different ages.
XD

thisqboy4u
November 12th, 2009, 07:16 PM
JustNick said it exactly right.