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Joe3140
November 8th, 2009, 03:17 PM
I'm not sure if this is best in the sexuality forum or the relationships forum, but I thought I'd get better advice here.

I recently came out to a friend who preceded to come out to me. We weren't very close friends. Now we're talking a lot, mostly texting each other (so in that just "talking" part of a relationship). My question is how the heck do we take it to the next level? We make efforts to hang out pretty often, but its always group things with either his group of friends or mine.

I need advice on how to move forward and kind of make it more of a him and I thing, rather than a let's join each others groups of friends thing. I don't know if it's too soon to talk to him about where we see us going if anywhere. Or should we just let it happen, and hope next weekend there is a house party somewhere and we end up kissing or something to take it to the next level. Any help? Thanks.

Stewart
November 8th, 2009, 03:58 PM
"Hey, Let's hang out."

mr.sexy_bomb
November 8th, 2009, 05:35 PM
um ok what i would do, is ask for a day, but just the 2 of you, wear something sexy, and just talk, tell him how you feel, and then go from there :)

the-person00
November 8th, 2009, 05:40 PM
Totally agree

thisqboy4u
November 10th, 2009, 07:38 PM
Sleepover? Watch some porn. See what happens.

nick
November 10th, 2009, 07:44 PM
Sleepover? Watch some porn. See what happens.
I dont think thats appropriate to the question being asked.

Its partly a question as to whether you are both prepared to be out to other people, that affects how much you want to be seen together. In some ways its no different to if you were straight and wanted to date a girl. So do the same things. Ask if he wants to see a movie. Whatever.

Billy15
November 11th, 2009, 01:24 AM
My problem is I can offer advice but I can't apply the same advice to myself. I think you are so brave just by coming out to this friend and opening that door and provided you both like each other equally, the hardest part is done lol. Why not just get him alone and say "hey, how would you like to check out a movie together" (2012 would be awesome) but anyways, something where you can be alone and have a chance to talk.
Good luck, be happy.