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Stevie J
November 7th, 2009, 12:39 PM
My best friend... She likes me a lot. i like her (as a friend. a close friend) and i just got outta a long (1 year) relationship... if anyone remembers my other posts and such, it ended, we mutually split and im hurt but its for the best... ANYWAY we like cuddle and stuff and then i realized i don't like her in the same way she does me. this means more to her than it does to me, so i have to come clean and tell her we can't be like that its not fair to you. So i did, now shes all IM WORTHLESS, no one ever loves me, wahhh... and idk what to do! like how do i save my friendship...
were apart of a group and i don't wanna lose her as a friend, or the group.
Suicune
November 7th, 2009, 07:55 PM
Well it sounds to me she's being a bit over-dramatic.
If you want to save your friendship or make her feel better: Do not do anything your not comfortable with. Don't become her boyfriend to make her happy if your not alright with it.
Talking to each other about the situation can really help straighten the problem.
And hopefully make her understand and not to become all "Worthless" as she feels.
Stevie J
November 7th, 2009, 08:22 PM
I tried talking to her. shes really over dramatic like one message she was all " i never wanna see you again" then the next was " i really don't want to lose you as a friend" then when i tried to talk to her she would be like NO ONE LOVES ME, NO ONE EVER CARES. but it all ended with: "Sorry, but i don't want to have anything to do with you, for at the very least, awhile."
so i guess it doesn't matter anymore. thanks for trying
Suicune
November 7th, 2009, 08:42 PM
Oh well. Sorry! D:
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