Issue with a friend.

[Church]

Basically in a nutshell, theirs a girl I like named Mikayla, I had a crush on her the last month or so, I didnt really ask her out, but flirted with her etc, she seemed a little interested, but then my friend, who knew I like her, asked her out and she said yes, and I'm thinking did I do something wrong? I thought I was making progress, and now I dont know how to confront my friend about it, thinking of just decking him or something.

[Suicune]

Basically in a nutshell, theirs a girl I like named Mikayla, I had a crush on her the last month or so, I didnt really ask her out, but flirted with her etc, she seemed a little interested, but then my friend, who knew I like her, asked her out and she said yes, and I'm thinking did I do something wrong? I thought I was making progress, and now I dont know how to confront my friend about it, thinking of just decking him or something.

Hm, well first how old are you?
Don't worry these things happen all the time.
You don't have to confront your friend, I mean school relationships almost never last a long time. After their little relationship is over just simply wait awhile. (People need their space after a breakup) Then when she's single, just try asking her out.

[Quick_Sylver]

Well maybe she's using the jealous factor meaning she likes you but thinks you need a hint and is trying to make you jealous? And as mford1996 said school relationships never last too long.

[Suicune]

And as mford1996 said school relationships never last too long.

Yeah, I believe from what I usually see in my school is that relationships last about 2 weeks to about 2 months max. But that's just me.

[Church]

15 almost 16, and maybe thats the case with the jealous thing, no idea though.

[Suicune]

15 almost 16, and maybe thats the case with the jealous thing, no idea though.

Oooo Jealousy...I smell a hint.

[Church]

Either way I'm probably going to ended up either cussing alot at friend or getting in a fight.

[Suicune]

Either way I'm probably going to ended up either cussing alot at friend or getting in a fight.

That's the worst possible thing you could do.
It will make you look like a jerk and ruin your chances with this girl.

[Quick_Sylver]

Either way I'm probably going to ended up either cussing alot at friend or getting in a fight.

Cuss don't fight imo friends are worth more than a girl (or guy) besides time (usually) heals all hurts.

[Church]

Well he is more of a aquitance, my real friends wouldn't date a girl they knew I liked.

[Suicune]

Well he is more of a aquitance, my real friends wouldn't date a girl they knew I liked.

Well maybe they actually liked her too? I mean she's not specially reserved just for you.

[Quick_Sylver]

First come first served but maybe he'll piss her off and she'll kick his sorry a** to the moon and beyond.

[Suicune]

First come first served but maybe he'll piss her off and she'll kick his sorry a** to the moon and beyond.

That just made my morning! :lol:

[Quick_Sylver]

That just made my morning! :lol:

Wow an American and a Canadian getting along, that's a first :P I'm sorry if my post upsets you I'm pretty realistic and pretty blunt. My apologies.

[Suicune]

Wow an American and a Canadian getting along, that's a first

Well I'm mostly French Canadian lol.