prom / girlfriend / date

[Waiting]

okay
just need a few opinions
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i have a girlfriend, we've been together since september 2004 She's 17, i'm 16
okay so my prom is comming up. and i've been asked to go by some girls
i can't take my girlfriend cuz she's in the year above me and its only my year allowed.

basically i would like to go with someone, not because i want to chet on laura but because i would quite like not to be the guy without a date to prom.....i had a date, she was incredibly pretty, but my girlfriend made such a big thing about it i had to tell her i cudnt go to prom with her

so now i am dateless, against my will

i can compeltly understand why she doesnt want me to have a date. so im not angry and such at her for it

but i was wondering should i stay dateless, please her, and try and have a good time
or go with someone, piss off my girlfriend, but have a better time and feel generally happier on the night?

what do u think?
x

[Ravenous]

I reckon you should take a date, I mean you have a girlfriend, assuming your not going to do anything stupid with your date then get one yeah, it means nothing does it.
If your girlfriend doesn't like it just try and explain it to her, hopefully she will understand, and your night will be better.

[Whisper]

I think your schools WAAAAAAAY!!! to strict
Go talk to the princible
be really nice and ask him to let her say that you two REALLY care for eachother you've been serious and going strong for many moons
Shes your world
and you want her to be there with you

....if that dosen't work full out grovel
leave ur dignity at the door patch this is for a higher power

[kolte]

sweet talk a female teacher at your school.
have her talk to the princible.
try and get one of the younger teachers right out of university.
shell not only feel for you more.
but shes more likely to get to your princible.

[northskater110]

ask ur girl if u can go with some1 so that she wont get mad

[Goatse]

yea just ask, but don't forget - rape is BAD! LOL!

or just dump your old girlfriend and bring a man.

[krzwis]

ask a friend for a specail request...make sure your gf knows its only specail request...and nothing more

[There_Goes_My_Life]

go dateless, she seems like the somewhat jealous type.. .i'm the extremely jealous type so i know what sh'e going through... i would definately go dateless if u don't wanna screw things up with Laura

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

its his prom night... one of the most special nights of his life.. you expect him to just sit on his own.. while everyone else is dancing?...

[There_Goes_My_Life]

If his g/f is even 1/4 as bad as me with jealousy than yeah! He's better off or he will risk losing laura... that's just my view because i am such a jealous person and from what he said i had a date, she was incredibly pretty, but my girlfriend made such a big thing about it i had to tell her i cudnt go to prom with her his g/f is a jealous person too.

The wisest thing to do, waiting, is to just go stag with some friends... hang, possibly talk to your g/f about CONSIDERING you dance with some people... or at least one person...

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

Well is it his fault that her girlfriend can't handle her jelousy... why should he have to suffer?...

[Aηdy]

I think if she trusts him like someone in a strong relationship should, she would let him go without a worry

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

I think if she trusts him like someone in a strong relationship should, she would let him go without a worry
As everyone else says... word...

[Aηdy]

So hes gotta decide if his relationship is worth hanging on to or not lol

[Waiting]

wow
cheers for all the replys guys
insane shit!
well im kinda over it anyway
i think im gonna go dateless.
theres no chance the head will change her mind for me
the prom committe have already tried thier hardest because there are quite a few in my year who are in the same situation as me.
i'm cool with going without a date
lauras more important then any event that only happens once in a lifetime heh
itscool
cheers for ure advice
i like the guy who said take another guy
at one point iw as goign with my best friend cuz we were sick with the whole date shit, so we were going to go together haha but then he got a girl date
dammn
ha feedback xx

[Aηdy]

i think you have made the right choice really! just go and have a good time, not having a date isnt going to stop you from having fun with you friends